My dog passed away on october in 2007. I still cry every night. What can I do to make myself happy?

Question

My dog passed away on october in 2007. I still cry every night. What can I do to make myself happy?

Answer 1

My heart goes out to you. We lost three beloved dogs within

three years - one was 13 and the other two were 10. When the last one passed I took three days off work because I couldn't even talk to anybody because of the horrible lump in my throat - and my eyes were swollen almost shut. That weekend my son found a 10 month old dog on pets.com that had been rescued from being euthanized at a shelter. She doesn't look like my beloved friend I lost but she has the same kind of ears. I brought her home and still cried over my other dog but my new friend was comforting to me and eventually I could think about my other dog without crying - most of the time. That happened in October 2002 and my eyes are tearing up right now. But the dog I have now is right here beside me so I think I'll hug her right now. I hope this helps you a little. God bless you.

Answer 2

I am so sorry for your lose. We all have different time in which we grieve some more then others. Sometimes there is something going on in our live that makes it even worse. I lost my beloved Dutchess the day of my Dad's funeral so I was going through two at once. I was told get a pet too. But I wasn't ready. It was about six months later that I did get another dog. But then a couple years ago lost her. I now have a two year old Pooh Bear that I don't know what I would do with out. I just know that your time will come when you know it is time for another pet. But until that time do like some have suggested. Keep busy. Work on a hobby. Go to shelters and look at the many animals that need a home. You might even try working at a shelter. Best of luck to you.

Answer 3

I'm sorry to hear about your dog. My dog died July 6th of last year and I still cry over him. You will never truly stop crying. What we did was get another dog. Do it when you think you're ready. I don't cry as much now with Jasmine because I have another dog to love in the same way I did Blue. Plus, we rescued Blue right off of the streets and made sure he didn't die of starvation. I hope you can move on (not to sound harsh) soon.





Oh, also, I would plant a tree and get a plaque. The plaque should say your dog's name, probably breed if you want it too, age it died, date born and date died. Then, plant the somewhat already grown tee and hang/or nail the plaque on the tree. You probably won't stop crying, but you could always go out their and just talk whenever your feeling blue. Or just cry.





Again, I'm sorry for your loss and I hope you solve your problem.

Answer 4

Personally I would focus my time and attention on another pet. Do not misunderstand, you are not replacing your pet, that cannot and will not EVER happen. Believe me, I've been down this road. Having another dog around to love and take care of can make the difference and can really help you through the grieving process. It's almost been 5 for me, I have 4 dogs now and I still love and miss the 1 I lost to cancer but if it weren't for those 4, I don't know what I would have done. Maybe volunteer at a shelter and just be around some pets for a while and see how you feel about that.

Answer 5

Look around the house - are all his favorite things all around to remind you? It's a good idea, at least until you can get yourself to a more stable place, to take all the things that used to be just his - the toys, the beds and water bowls, etc - and put them in a special box that you can store out of site JUST FOR NOW...



Next, FOCUS ON YOU. Get a new haircut, go out to a movie,

join an activity group in your town (most newspapers have listings of free or cheap groups that meet regularly!)



Look to talk to other people going through the same thing, but limit yourself to how much time you spend focusing on the past - YOUR PET WOULD WANT YOU HAPPY and not depressed every day because you can't let him go!



Check out the Association For Pet Loss And Bereavement:

http://www.aplb.org/chat/chat_petloss.html

and join a free chat with experts to help you and other people who understand.



DON'T get a new pet right away - it's not fair to the new one if you can't give him the same love and full attention you gave to the last one.



Also, maybe try a different breed so that you're not spending the new dog's whole life comparing him to his predecessor.



Maybe rescue a dog from the pound in honor of your last dog. Be honest with yourself if you're not ready for the craziness of potty-training and teaching obedience to a puppy right now - maybe you need the tender and calm love of a dog who's a young adult or in his own mid-life.



Let me know if there's more I can do for you.

Answer 6

when my hound passed away after 16 years, I immediately started going to the SPCA to walk dogs. It helped to be around other animals, and I felt proactive at the same time. It is a horrible pain, but it should not be taking over your life like this. I don't suggest getting another dog right away, but within a year-two years. I love my new dog, I still miss Georgie, but having Jake has made my life very happy. I consider this the same as a relationship, don't jump right back into one. If you get a dog immediately there is a possibility it won't be the right one for you. When I lost Georgie, every dog seemed perfect, simply because I was on the "rebound". Give yourself a little more time to heal, but definately find ways to be around dogs, it can help.

Answer 7

I am sorry for your loss. What you have to remember is - everyone deals with grief in different ways. It is hard letting go sometimes and having life get back to normal. You just lost something that gave you un-conditional love. I would recommend that you keep talking about your feelings (friend therapy!), maybe think about rescuing another pet, there are a lot of dogs in danger (but only if you feel ready. Pets are a big emotional investment and you don't want to rush into getting another animal if you are only going to compare it to your last dog.) Only you will know when it is time to look into another pet. So just remember that grief is natural and it will pass - for some people sooner than others. Try to surround yourself with happy stuff, stay busy, find a positive way to relieve your grief (prayer, meditation, art - what ever works for you!) When I lost my pet - I made an album and that helped me... Just keep working through it... Don't give up - it will get better... I hope you feel better soon. Take care of you.

Answer 8

Here are some good books to help you deal with your pain. The Grief Recovery Handbook by John W. James How To Survive The Loss Of A Love by Peter McWilliams The first book is a really good book to help you sort through your emotions when dealing with any kind of grief (death, divorce, etc.) The second book is just a great "pick me up" for these nights when you cannot sleep. It is a book that can be picked up and put down repeatedly. You don't need to read it cover to cover. It is very inspirational. Just remember that hurting is perfectly healthy when faced with this kind of life experience. Being pregnant will only add to that stress. There is not a specific time frame as to when you should or will get over it. Everyone deals with grief their own way. I wish you the best of luck and all the happiness you deserve.

Answer 9

and I felt proactive at the same time. It is a horrible pain, but it should not be taking over your life like this. I don't suggest getting another dog right away, but within a year-two years. I love my new dog, I still miss Georgie, but having Jake has made my life very happy. I consider this the same as a relationship, don't jump right back into one. If you get a dog immediately there is a possibility it won't be the right one for you. When I lost Georgie, every dog seemed perfect, simply because I was on the "rebound". Give yourself a little more time to heal, but definately find ways to be around dogs, it can help.

Answer 10

I'm sorry to hear that. I once had a dog named Lu. He was a Beagle (a dog breed), yet he was only a baby. We bought her for our sister's birthday present. He was extremely adorable and playful for the first few weeks until there were unusual symptoms. We immediately took him to the vet. A few days later, he died. I was young at that time, but I knew Lu was one of my best companions and for weeks, I couldn't stop thinking about him.



What I did to make me feel better is not therapy, not getting a new pet, but to think that he went to a better place. Just believe that he was an adorable pet and that he would reborn again as a healthy living human, animal, or anything you could think of. Don't cry. Just believe that when we get sick or when we get old, we die, and you have to realize that, period. I could say that there is no other suggestion.



I am really sorry to hear that even though it has been almost a year ago. I hope you feel better, and believe me, your dog has moved on to a better place. Cheer up.

Answer 11

Losing a loved one is never ever easy. I think crying is a natural reaction, but one way to channel that energy is to save a dog in a kennel or shelter that would otherwise be put down. You know the devestation first hand of losing a dog...so go and help one.



You can start to spoil this new dog you saved and show him/her all of the good things in life that you were able to share with your dog.

Answer 12

Amy,

Your dog is in a better place. I'm sure he/she remembers you and will be waiting someday. There is no reason for sadness on behalf of your dog at this point in time. I love my dogs too, and if they died, I'd be sad. If I cried every day for several months, I'd get professional help - which you say you did.

You need to find someone else that is more effective. Ultimately, you are responsible for your own happiness, but the right help, the right anti-depressants, and some good insight will get you over the hump so that you can get on with life and learn to handle stuff like this more effectively. It's an unfortunate part of life, but it happens and eventually it's going to happen to a person you are close to. You need to solve this in the near term before something truly serious (life threatening for you or another person) happens in your life.



-Kevin

Answer 13

Awwww, I am so sorry. I know how hard that is to get over.



Just try to move on. Don't forget your dog, but realize that the only thing dwelling on it will do is make you upset. Still keep around pictures or things that remind you of your dog because you should never forget a good friend, but realize that, as sad as it is, he/she is not coming back, and crying and being miserable is not going to change anything. If you think it might help, get a new dog or a cat or some kind of pet. Not to replace your dog, because nothing and no one could do that, but just for some company. Try to do things you enjoy and keep yourself happy. At night, maybe listen to music or try to think of something else.



I really hope that helps! I know how hard that is.

Answer 14

wow, im really sorry. i would still be crying to cuz losing a pet is just hard.



i would reccomed going to a therapist. Do You Have your dogs ashes? or did you bury him? if you did the ashes thing then you can make a ring or a necklace to keep on everyday so that he is still with you.



sorry for your loss

Answer 15

It's hard but think about getting a new dog. Many people feel guilty about getting a new dog after the death of another, but I think it's a good thing. There are so so many dogs that need good homes and you are obviously capable of giving a dog the love and attention it deserves.

Answer 16

I'm sorry for your loss. It's perfectly normal to grieve for a departed friend.



All I can tell you is try to remember your friend and the happy times you had together. You will probably have other dogs but none will ever "replace" your departed friend. And that's how it should be. Each dog holds it's own special place in our hearts.



We said goodbye to our beloved mutt in July 2004 and I still grieve for him. I can't read "The Rainbow Bridge" without misting up and thinking about him waiting for me.



All I can say is it's OK to grieve. When you feel the time is right you will be chosen by another dog.

Answer 17

oh honey i know how you feel, i lost my basset hound in may 2007 and i still think about him every day......some people say to get another dog, well i already had another when my dog passed, it helped alittle, take a look at this web sight i found it after my dog passed

http://www.rainbowbridge.org/residents.aspx?resid=RB0A4477 .......you can make a pet memorial and it is free.... this is the link to my dog........this helps me......good luck

Answer 18

My dog passed away last week and I am still in mourning as well.. He was with me for 11 years, he was my love, my joy, my baby, my heart, my love.. I raised him from a little 2 week old baby to my big naughty crazy loving dog..



It's not something that can be explained, the feeling is painful, I understand you.. I wake up in the middle of the night, just to cry because I can't feel him next to me anymore..



What I can say is if it's possible, maybe you could share some of the love that you have had for your previous dog with a new dog? A new dog that needs the tender loving care that you have showered your old dog..



Sometimes I go to the pet store to look at the dogs and feel happy whenever I play with the puppies, knowing when I'm ready I will give one lucky bugger a home.. I also go to the pound and look at the dogs there as well..



I don't know if that would help you but it has helped me.. Today I saw an adult cat for adoption and I am contemplating on adopting him. He has the same personality as my dog, and sometimes I believe it's fate that we're meeting..



Good luck on finding another soul mate, just remember, your dog has been one lucky dog! And he will always love you for everything you have done..

Answer 19

My cat died then too. Just think, your dog loved you very much, and if he had the choice to die or live with you and live, he would have picked to live with you (even though he is a dog.) He had many happy years with you, and he loved (and loves) you. Don't worry, he is sleeping at the foot of God's bed tonight and every night.

Answer 20

Awww I'm sorry Amy. I think it will help to get another dog. You are not only missing your dog that passed away but also the love you gave your dog and the love you dog gave love back to you. You can help fill the void with another dog. It will be hard at first. But work hard at loving the new dog. You can do it. You will always remember your beloved pet and that is good but you can also have another pet to love and go on with.

Answer 21

You may think this is too soon, but if at all possible get a puppy. It's hard to grieve when you have a bundle of love in your arms. Saddly life goes on, and realize that you must love your puppy or dog just like every day could be the last. It's very hard to loose a best friend just remember all the happy times. Time will help.

Answer 22

I had dog that died as well. I got a new puppy and actually just made myself take care of him for a while because I was still really sad and was not "in love" with the new dog yet. He ended up growing on me and I absolutely LOVE him now! I can't imagine what I would do without him. The pain from the one before never 100% goes away, but a new one is a great remedy! Just remember that you are never "replacing" your old dog, just getting a new friend.

Answer 23

I know exactly how you feel. I just lost my cat last year and it made me so sad whenever her name was brought up. She was named Candy so I heard it pretty often. Did you own the dog by yourself, or do you know someone who was also close to him? If you do, you can always try and talk with that person of all the good memories you had of your dog. It'll be a great opportunity to cry yourself out. Try looking at pictures, or holding his old collar. Just remember that your dog sure wouldnt want to see you sad, and that day would be the last day you ever cry over him. Afterwards, try and freshen up and go to the pound.(It may be hard, but you're going to have to do it someday) Try finding a new replacement pet and make sure you give your new pet all the love that you gave your past dog.

Answer 24

It will always be hard to lose a pet. My mom's dog (my little sister) passed away July 23, 2007. She left behind a litter of puppies that I hand-raised. It's really hard, especially on my mom, because the puppies look and act so much like their mother. My mom still cries every night, too. I don't think there's much in life that will make it go away. Maybe you should volunteer at a local animal shelter and consider giving your love to another little baby. It will never replace the one you lost, but maybe it will rekindle the love that's still in your heart. Hope things work out for you :-)

Answer 25

I'm sorry for your loss... And in answer to your question there is no direct answer, because everyone deals with pain in their own way. Sometimes getting a new dog is not the answer... You have to make sure that you are able to give the new puppy the same loving care that you gave your last friend. I'm sooo sorry to hear that it has affected you so much, but the one thing that helps me is to let time do it's thing, maybe it will just take some more time for you. We have all lost a loved one in death and it is always hard but keeping yourself busy may help. Know that someone wishes you well, and I hope that you have friends and family around to help you in your time of need as well.

Answer 26

Oh Amy, you have my sympathy. It is just heart-wrenching to lose a pet. I currently have the dearest 13-year-old kitty, but she's sick and I dread the day she will leave me.



As you're still crying after all this time, I would like to suggest a pet bereavement chat room: http://aplb.org/chat/chat_petloss.html



They helped me so much some time ago.



I don't know if there is any guilt associated with losing your pet - you may feel responsible in some way - if so, here's a wonderful article:

http://www.pet-loss.net/guilt.html



You say that you got counseling for this loss some time ago and it didn't help. I'd like to recommend that you go to someone else. Sometimes we just don't click with a particular therapist, so the sessions don't help. You might find the next person to be perfect.



The reason it's so important to get help is that, with prolonged depression, the brain chemistry actually changes. When it does, you need professional help to restore the proper chemical balance - it may take medication; it will certainly take counseling.



Best of luck to you, Amy! I hope that one day soon you will be able to share your love with another lucky canine companion.

Answer 27

Amy,



So sorry for your loss! May you live a long life!



Don't get a new dog now! Get through your grief first.



A tried and true way to get through grief is to talk about it, write about it, pray about it.



Talk: So, it's good you wrote here:-) You're talking about it. You may want to talk to someone you respect and think is friendly and wise about it -- a friend, relative, etc.



Write or Draw: Now, to feel even better, go get a beautiful journal at a gift shop or fancy book store to write about it. Get really nice paper, and a pen you feel like writing with. When you're crying, write your heart out about the good that your dog did, or funny things, or even bad things while with you. (Or you can put up a website in your dog's memory if that is more your writing style).



Pray: Ask God to heal your heart and comfort you, to be with you through the night. We are all just passing through. This world isn't the final destination, even for dogs, just a bus stop. Never let anyone tell you it's time to move on - everyone is unique, and you will know when it is time.



Plant a Tree or get a Plant: In order to fill that empty space in your part of this universe, and I don't know why this works but it does -- you can plant a tree in your puppy's memory. Something you know will grow in your area that is really beautiful. Or, if you can't plant a tree, get a really nice plant like a jade plant or big ivy for your room. It isn't to take the place, only to remind you and the world in a positive way -- your dog was here, and is remembered and loved!



I still remember my first dog - Tippy, and will never forget Badger. They are a part of me, and I am grateful for the love they gave me. Animals can teach us so much about life if we just listen. You are in a great place to listen right now! Any pet would be lucky to have you for a friend! Be in a Place of Peace.



(((Amy)))

Answer 28

why dont you get a new puppy. New puppies are a handful so it will probably keep your mind off of your dog, and also why dont you make a scrapbook of all the pictures that you have of your dog, than while you put together the scrapbook you can see alll the great times you had. And then you could also put in pictures of the new puppy. And dont feel as though you are replacing your dog. And there are also many other things you could do but i think these will help you cope with your loss. Hope this helps, good luck!

Answer 29

You may need to be prescribed medication. I don't think that's normal. Though, I do understand your pain. I just lost my little dachshund of 11 yrs. and was pretty much crushed like a tin can. That's not an overstatement either. I was useless for several days. The only thing that has got me going is will power and the thought I will see him again. He was wide open and full of life 24/7. I don't believe God would send something in my life so critical and important in my life just to take it away forever. I think these little friends are tools that we learn about love and forgiveness with. I'm sure there will be times that I will cry for him when I'm old and gray. God Bless you. I hope you find your way through this and can find peace.

Answer 30

I know exactly how you feel. My dog died and I cried all the time.I never thought that I would ever feel the same about another dog. But I took a big step and got another dog. It turned out that I loved her just as much as my other dog. So in other words getting another dog helped me understand that everyone/thing lives and dies for a reason and you just have to pick up and move on...so I am suggesting you get a new dog start with a puppy....Hope this helps you. :)

Answer 31

hi. i have always wondered whether i should get a dog... since they only live a fraction of your lifespan... but i realized that not adopting a dog would simply mean them being euthanized... so i decided that getting a dog and showing positive side of life and having sum fun with him is the least i can do for them. i am sorry for your loss. but sumtimes, its just time to move on. i recommend getting a new puppy. but not now. spend sum time with just one good friend of urs. work a lot. go out there and earn money. read a book. inspirational movies always help. (no dog movies please) and the BEST BEST way to channel out the thoughs of your old dog is to play sports. if you can't do that, then run. running will do you lots of good. trust me, you won't be thinking about your dog when you run. get into it. pick up an old sport that you used to play or pick a new one. like golf! golf is very engaging sport if you get into it. it takes time to to play it and you will spend a chunk of your day thinking about it if you learn it. shoot some hoops at the park. the point is, hav fun, enjoy the good side of life and ignore the tough part of it for sum time. you have to live a healthy life. what you are doing right now is not healthy and you have to admit that. put some smile on your face. and mostly, try not be alone. get a gf or bf. i am not sure if you are a girl or a boy or a gay or a bi. anyways, good luck!

Answer 32

First of all, im so sorry. ive never really lost a pet that i was attached to, so i dont know how it feels.



You should get another dog. Dont get one that is the same breed, or even looks similar, that will only remind you of your dog even more. Get a small dog that you can cuddle with, or put on your lap. Name it something totally different. (I suggest looking on the internet for some cute names) Then just have fun with it.



I have never failed to laugh or at least smile at a dog if i watch it for more than a minute or two.



I am NOT suggesting that you completely stop thinking about your old dog. Try to remember fun times of your dog and try to recreate some of them with your new one.



I hope I helped.

Answer 33

I am sorry to hear of your loss, and sorrier to tell you I think your grief is more than just the loss of your pet. After this much time you should be able to get through a period of time without crying, although it's understandable you would still be sad, I still get sad about animals I have had that died years ago.



I think what you need to do is to take charge of your own mental state and happiness and focus on good things instead of bad things. This takes work and effort but gets easier with time.



Regarding the crying for your dog, change your nighttime pattern and try to not think about your dog. Spend time with a friend, read a book, get out of the house, but don't think about the dog. This is not a betrayal, your dog would want you to be happy, after all, dogs are all about "the moment". So do what your dog would do, enjoy "the moment" try to focus on the good things in your life and try to not focus on the bad things in the world.



Again, I'm sorry for your loss, I've got other posts on the "happiness campaign" I started for myself about 15 years ago that has changed my life...feel free to dig around in my old answers, there are more details about how to make yourself happier on a daily basis in there...and it works without meds...

Answer 34

Everyone takes different lengths of time to get over the different stages of grief. You loved your pet a lot and that is going to take a while to get over. When you feel like crying or regretting the way you treated your dog at times, just think of the nice, calm, or happy times you two spent together. When you feel you can handle another dog, get one. Just make sure it isn't the same breed as the first dog, that way you won't think of him/her as much as you would if you see the same kind of dog as your old dog everyday... Good Luck, and I hope this helps you.

Answer 35

i know youve heard this before, but get another dog, you may feel that you dont ever want to get another dog because your old dog was better than any other dog, but another dog would help to fill the empty gap and im absolutely sure you would end up loving this new dog as well. if you really object to getting a new dog, try getting another type of animal. a bird, bunny, or cat etc. it will help to fill the void and it wont feel as though your new animal is replacing your old dog. dont try and forget your old dog...keep him alive in your heart, just dont dwell on his death, remember the best times you had with him. he is happy in doggy heaven and im sure that he doesnt want you crying over him every night. hes not gone completely and he never will be. he is just gone physically but hes still is with you. i hope i could help and that everything works out...cheer up, you have your family too, and they all love you.

Answer 36

Well you can get another dog. My mom's dog died to and se was very upset also. She got another dog from the pound (which i must say are the best dogs!) and she stopped crying. She became best friends with the dog. The best thing is that the dog she adopted it's lifespan is 10-30 years! My opinon you should get a pound puppy. They really cling to the new owners! You should also get a beagle or a schnauzer!

Answer 37

oh I am very sorry to hear that I lost my dog to I would cry all the time until my parents got me a dog it brought back happy and fun feelings in your life again. And do not be sad he or she is in a happy fun great place and she or he is sure she or he dont want you to be sad. And getting a new puppy will not make you feel guilty it will make you feel so much more happy and loved and You get to be with a puppy that is like a baby and she or he will keep you bussy! so I really wish you the best of luck and I understand what you are going through you will get through it. =]

[SORRY ITS LONG BUT WORTH READING]

Answer 38

I lost my dog to I would cry all the time until my parents got me a dog it brought back happy and fun feelings in your life again. And do not be sad he or she is in a happy fun great place and she or he is sure she or he dont want you to be sad. And getting a new puppy will not make you feel guilty it will make you feel so much more happy and loved and You get to be with a puppy that is like a baby and she or he will keep you bussy! so I really wish you the best of lu

Answer 39

There is no time limit for what is an appropriate length of time for grieving over the loss of a loved one. Sometimes it is years before you feel healed. Time does not heal all wounds. Time just allows you to learn to deal with the continued pain of loss.



When I lost my mom, I grieved for over 7 years. Counselling didn't really help me either. When I lost my dog, my best friend ever, I cried for around 4 years. I have had other great dogs since then, but there has never been a replacement for her since she died in 1988. You will learn to live with the pain, the loss, the emptiness.



To help you learn to cope, make a photo collage for your bedroom walls of you and your dog. Volunteer at an animal shelter, walking, bathing, and grooming the dogs there. Get a paw print or your dogs portrait tattooed on your arm.



Life goes on, but the connection, the ties will always be there.

Answer 40

I had a mini Chihuahua for 17 years. After losing him the hardest thing was being alone. I tried keeping myself busy or just not being at the house alone. I have a new dog now and no dog will ever take the place of my Gizmo, its nice to have another friend! I suggest not getting the same breed as your other dog. You will only be upset that its not the same. Good luck and I do understand. Gizmo was not a dog, he was my child and I still miss him now after 2 years!

Answer 41

Aww Amy! :-(



I wish I could give you a hug.



Before I had children I was very, very attached to my pets. I think the best thing you can do is accept that every life comes to an end and sadly, dogs have much shorter lives than humans. Better for him to pass away than live in pain for so much longer. Besides, he's still with you in spirit. Talk to him. Tell him you love him. Tell him you miss him... and say goodbye.



My cat just disappeared a couple of weeks ago and I'm sad about it... but I dunno....



I'm really happy that he had a good life and that he died in the great outdoors, his favorite place. Better than living a life of pain.



I wish you peace!

Answer 42

i had a female boxer that got killed a few years ago and even though it still makes me sad that shes gone i just look back on the times we had together and how happy she made me and it brings a smile to my face. i also have a photo album with pics of her sitting in my living room so she still feels close to me. although i get sad from time to time i understand that this is the way life works everything dies and we go on. i would NOT recommend getting a dog similar to the one you lost because it could never live up to the one you lost. go with a totally different breed. i have a chihuahua and a dachshund now and they are both the light of my life. they bring me such joy watching them play and being able to teach them new tricks and watching them grow. we all go on a 1 1/2 mile walk everyday and this helps us to spend time togehter outdoors and just have fun. sorry for your loss but its time to move on. moving on doesnt mean we forget about the pets we lose it just means we can now go forward and give another pet the love he or she deserves. try the an animal shelter of the humane society they're so many pets out there that have been abandoned or neglected that need a good home. i think you have so much love inside for the pet you lost that you didnt have time to give it all so thats why you are grieving so much. its time to give that love to another.

Answer 43

Go to a reputable animal shelter and rescue an abused dog, and make every day of that dog's life happy. You might be surprised at how happy doing a good deed can make you feel, especially when it's a good deed done for a dog. In addition to feeling fulfilled, the dog will reward you with love and affection.

Just remember, any dog you own will have a shorter life span than you. Eventually, any dog you own will die, and nobody can change that rule. If you need further help, psychotherapists and even pastors (even if you're not religious) know techinques for dealing with grief and moving on. Pastors/ministers are often especially good when it comes to the subject of grief. Read a small book by Granger Westberg called Good Grief. It might help you understand what you're going through.

Answer 44

Was he a very old dog? If he was, you have to accept that he was probably suffering and now that's he gone to heaven, he's in a much better place. He wouldn't ache anymore, and when your time comes, he'll be right there waiting for you. I know that no dog could ever replace him, but maybe a fresh start with a new puppy could help you to cope and let go. I hope this helps!

Answer 45

I can thoroughly relate to what you're going through. I'm glad to hear that you're mourning - not because I want you to hurt - but because it indicates that you are a caring, loving person.



I have lost many wonderful animal friends over the years, but one recent loss was devastating to me and my wife. On Dec 27 2007, we lost a wonderful, sweet, playful, intelligent, loving raccoon that we had raised from infancy. His name was Little Boy and he was about 8 months old when he died. He would chase us through the house playing and then, when he got tired, would climb in bed and sleep with us (oftentimes with his head on a pillow).



The hurt that we experienced when he got sick and slowly died was almost unbearable. We had to take him out of town to a vet that treated raccoons, and when he died we were at the vet's office. The trip home was awful. The vet wrapped his little body in paper and put a flower on it. We rode home with him on the seat behind us.



We still hurt as you do. I just believe that there's got to be some answer that we don't have right now. While I believe that to a small degree organisms adapt to their surroundings, I do not believe in full-scale evolution (and I am trained and well-read in science). I believe that there is a higher power and that even animal life is precious to him.



I have done a lot of thinking and exploring on this subject and have come to some conclusions. The Bible shows that God cares about animal life and considers it to be sacred. Consider, for example, Luke chapter 12, verse 6: "Aren't five sparrows sold for two pennies? Yet not a single one of them is forgotten by God." (Today's English Version)



I believe that life - human & animal - is precious and sacred and that there is more to it than the few years that it lasts now. The Bible clearly states that there is going to be a resurrection of humans, but the Bible (I've read it many times and studied it for thirty years) doesn't always state everything in black and white. You sometimes have to reason on certain things based on other information given. So I think it's possible that there could be a resurrection of animals also. "You open your hand and give your favor to satisfy every living thing" - Psalms 145:16 (The Bible in Living English)



Anyway, my point is this: You are a loving person. Go on with life, but be a good person and continually search for answers. Don't just drift through life without asking and questioning. The Bible says that if you keep on seeking you will find (Luke 11:9,10). Keep alive hope of seeing your loved one again. The Bible indicates that we are in a period when huge changes are going to be made on earth, so it's possible that we may see some profound changes very soon. Remember, don't give up on hope.



P.S.#1: You ask about being happy. I have relative happiness, but I can't have complete happiness as long as humans & animals are starving and being tortured and suffering all over the earth. Matthew 5:4 says "Happy are those who mourn." That's because those who mourn are caring people - aware of the plight of their fellow creatures. People who don't care about the suffering of others can't be truly happy. I won't be fully happy until all suffering has ended.



P.S.#2: If you'd like to see a video of Little Boy playing and some photos of him in bed, email me ([e-mail]).

Answer 46

You may want to consider getting a puppy. Not to ever take the place of your lost companian, but to help you fill that part missing in your life now.



Rainbow Bridge



When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.



All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.



They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.



You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.



Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together...

Answer 47

I lost my rottie last november to a heart attack and I still miss her sorely. I have her daughter so that helps but she can't take the place of her mother. I would get another pup but don't expect it to take the place of your lost dog it will be an all different temperment. Thats why a lot of dogs end in the pound because there new owners expect the pup to be like the dog they lost it doesn't work that way.

Answer 48

My dog passed away back in October of 2007. I'm still sad about his passed. In January I got two new puppies, my dog brought me the two puppies from Heaven to love. I'm still dreaming of my dog and hoping my dog is running around in Heaven, my dog loved to run around. You always remember your dog!

Answer 49

When my cat passed away in 2002 she was three years old. Three years ago I got me a puppy to try and help with the pain. My new puppy helped with the pain. I would cry over my cat Missy a lot. The pain has eased a lot once I got my puppy Sheridan. Don't get me wrong I still miss Missy greatly but Sheridan helps me deal with the pain better.

Answer 50

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.



All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.



You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.



Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....



Just remember you will see each other again one day, I understand your pain, I lost my kitty on July 1st 2008 at 6:10 pm, I have to keep telling myself I will see him again and he is in a better place and he doesnt hurt anymore, I hope I helped

Answer 51

I suspect you were not happy before your dog died.

What you describe is not grief over a loss, but a real depression that requires treatment from a psychiatrist. Please understand I am sensitive to this issue, my poor husband has battled clinical depression for 30 years. Do some reading on depression and it's causes and symptoms to understand what type of depression you have. Get a good Doctor who will help find the correct medication. There are several families of anti-depressants that can help.



I strongly urge you NOT to make any changes - like getting a dog - until you feel better. Dogs are very intuitive and may pick up you current weak state and miss-understand how to react to it. A confused dog could react with anxiety (chewing, soiling, biting), or aggression (biting, barking).

Depression can leave you feeling unable to cope, so training a new puppy/dog may prove overwhelming and frustrating rather than comforting.

Answer 52

Please accept my sincere condolences on your sad loss - what you need to think of is how your dog would feel seeing you so upset night after night? He / she is not here now to lick your face when you're sad and is feeling bad that they can't comfort you in the way you want them to, don't make it worse by destroying yourself when they can't be here to help? Concentrate your mind and thoughts onto something else - build a memorial in the garden or on the patio - spend all your spare time on finding the materials to build the memorial, lovely big stones, lovely pictures of your dog that can be laminated and incorporated into the memorial, candles and covered candle lanterns, coloured stones and rocks, it will keep your mind occupied and at the end of it, you'll have a beautiful, life-lasting memorial to your loved one and one that you can visit every anniversary as well as his /her birthday. If you haven't looked after yourself during this period i think a check up would be in order? Don't ever neglect your health, its not what your dog would want nor is it what any of your friends and family would want - you MUST take care of yourself! Best of luck.

Answer 53

it's devastating. you must be absolutely heartbroken. i don't think people would be so hard on you if 1.they had it happen to them or 2.it was a person you are crying over.



i had a pet die five years ago, and it devastated me. truly. i cried every night for a long time. if i talk about my lost pet too much i still get misty eyed.

believe it or not, time heals all wounds.



don't feel guilty for crying over your dog. let yourself grieve. cry, scream into a pillow- let it out. keep a memento but don't keep EVERYTHING of your pet's. that will make it worse.

our pets can be more loving and compassionate than some people are(obviously)...no wonder you hurt so bad :(

Answer 54

Get another dog, it doesn't replace the one you lost, but there are SO many that need loving homes and it sounds like you have some love that needs to be given to a dog. There is one out there that really needs you. PLEASE consider a rescue or a rehome situation. You will never forget the one who meant so much to you, but another really does fill the void if you find a good match.

Answer 55

you should move on, and if your ready to get new dog, you should get to move on, accept the reality, just think that he is in heaven and hes very happy and he's watching and guarding you!

My dog died in October 2006 before my birthday, he was slaughtered by cruel people! I cried a month, until now I sometimes cry because he didn't died in a peaceful way..T__T

But for more infos on how to move on, visit this link:

http://www.loveyourdog.com/remember.html

Condolence for your dog, and may he rest in peace!

Cheer up, good luck!

Answer 56

im SO sorry!! i know what its like to loose your baby!! i had to put down my pet rat just last week after a accident.... the best way i deal with it is i tell my self she is in a better happier place. that she lived a good life but now it will be better. once i get passed that i make things to think of her but not in a way that she is gone but that she is in my heart forever.

for ex:

i made a slide show of her pics.

i put a pic of her and a summary on my myspace.

i put a pic of her as the cover of my fone[[this may be a lil difficult]]



you dont need to get a new pet unless you feel you are ready. know that if you do it isnt going to replace it but it will become an addition to your family and in your heart.



also try not to think of the memorys you had...this may sound mean and difficult but try not to think of what you guys have done together cuz it just makes you feel and know you cant do those things anymore.



keep her in your heart but not ALWAYS in your mind [[it just brings you down!]]



i really hope ive helped and again im very sorry about your loss....



--Desiree

Answer 57

I am so sorry for the loss of you dog. When a beloved pet dies there is no time limit to feeling happy again, you need to grieve. I have a suggestion for you that may be therapeutic for you personally as well as help you through this sad time. Volunteer your time at one of your animal shelters or animal rescues before going to get another dog. The reason is because during volunteering with the dogs - you will find a special dog that needs you as much as you need him/her, meanwhile you will be working with other dogs that need your attention and it will be hard for you to feel sad around these dogs because they always make people smile. If this does not work for you. Volunteer for some organization where you have some interest. Take some puppies to a convalescent hospital for example, work with needy kids, etc. Volunteering for others allows you to focus on someone else rather than the pain you are feeling and it will help you work through yours.

Answer 58

I'm sorry you have to got through this. If you've shared your heart and home with a dog, you will no doubt feel a great sense of loss and sorrow when you lose her. No matter how old your dog was, how many years you had together, or how expected her death, the grief can be overwhelming.



here's what you can do:

http://tinyurl.com/5zv6yl

Answer 59

I know how you feel my dog of 5 years just past away I was so sad but the best thing you can do is remember they are watching over you and that you will meet again some day

Answer 60

You obviously loved your dog a lot,you cannot replace him but you may learn to love another puppy ,I'm sure that is what you need small dogs are great companion pets . I hope you find the strength to come to the decision to buy a puppy. I know I would be devestated if I lost my dog.

Answer 61

I am sorry for your lost. I cannot imagine how you are feeling. I love my beagles so much and I am actually dreading the day he will have to be let him go, and he is only 4 (the other is 2). When I think about it, I actually get teary. I bawled reading Marley and Me--I had the toughest time reading the last few chapters--I constantly put it down because I needed the time to get myself together.



I will probably be as bad as you if not worse, but maybe getting another dog would help. Your dog must have been wonderful to have such an impact on you. Consider yourself lucky for having had him/her in your life.



Here is a poem for you.



The Rainbow Bridge



There is a bridge connecting Heaven and Earth.



It's called the Rainbow Bridge of its many colors. Just this side of the Rainbow Bridge is a land of meadows, hills and valleys, all of it covered with lush green grass.



When a beloved Pet dies, the Pet goes to this lovely land. There is always food and water and warm spring weather. There, the old and frail animals are young again. Those who are maimed are made whole once more. They play all day with each other, content and comfortable.



There is only one thing missing: they are not with the special person who loved them on Earth. So each day they run and play until the day comes when one suddenly stops playing and looks up! Then, their nose twitches. Their ears are up! Eyes wide open... You have been seen and that one suddenly runs from the group.



You take him or her in your arms and embrace. Your face is kissed again and again and again, and you look once more into the eyes of your trusting friend and pet.



Then, together, you cross the Rainbow Bridge, never again to be seperated.



Author Unknown

Answer 62

My dog has passed away before and I think that you need to get another dog. It does not mean that you are replacing him or her, because if you thought about it, they would have wanted you to be happy, right??

Answer 63

First of all, I wanted to say that I am sorry for your loss. Some of the tips that may want to keep you happy are: pray to him for having a safe trip to heaven, you could also get a new puppy, but make sure that it has a longer life span than your old one and the most important thing for you, enjoy your life.

Answer 64

I'm sorry about your loss. i would get another pet. i think moving forward will help rather than dreading in the past. your dog is in a better place and is happy. you should be too. I would also adopt a pet from a shelter because they need love and a home too.

Answer 65

i know how you feel my pointer casey ran away and it felt like she passed away.If you still cry at night you have a special bond with your dog.You should draw pictures write all about your dog talk about your dog if you get another dont put as a replacement put it as another dog in your heart that is a diffrent breed i recamend a pointer/birdog german shepard shih tzu or a yorkie or get one the same breed but diffrent looking.

Answer 66

I think you should find something else to fall in love with like another pet or an activity that you enjoy of some sort. Sorry about your dog =(

Answer 67

It just takes time.



I stood by your bed last night, I came to have a peep.

I could see that you were crying, you found it hard to sleep.

I whined to you softly as you brushed away a tear,

"It's me, I haven't left you, I'm well, I'm fine, I'm here."

I was close to you at breakfast, I watched you pour the tea

You were thinking of the many times your hands reached down to me.

I was with you at my grave today, you tend it with such care.

I want to re-assure you, that I'm not lying there.

I walked with you towards the house as you fumbled for your key.

I gently put my paw on you, I smiled and said, "It's me."

You looked so very tired, and sank into a chair

I tried so hard to let you know that I was standing there.

It's possible for me to be so near you every day

To say to you with certainty, "I never went away."

You sat there very quietly, then smiled; I think you knew...

In the stillness of that evening, I was very close to you.

The day is over... I smile and watch you yawning

And say "good-night, God bless, I'll see you in the morning."

And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide,

I'll rush across to greet you and we'll stand, side by side.

I have so many things to show you, there is so much for you to see.

Be patient, live your journey out... then come home to be with me.

~Author Unknown~







http://rainbowsbridge.com

Answer 68

Buy a new dog. It always help. I lost my dog last year too. We cried and didn't stop crying. Then finally we got two new dogs... we've been tear free ever since.



Good Luck.



Oh and if you do get a dog u should adopt one, get a Schnauzer, Shih-tzu, Shiba Inu, Shetland Sheepdog, or Golden Retriever. Best breeds ever. =)

Answer 69

i had to have my baby put to sleep he had not eaten for 2wks .He was dying it was his heart surgery would have killed him so i know what your going through. That was last sept 2007. i still cry when look at his last photos.if you think a puppy could fill your emptiness's then get one.I hate walking through my door from work with out my best Friend meeting me. Ive been through it twice .Made my mind up cant do it again.but in your case could ease your pain different bred to the one you lost. take care x

Answer 70

there are a lot of good answers here but the best one is that you need to do it yourself and take all the time you need to greive! a dog is a loved one and u lost it. i lost my dog too when i was young and i still miss him everyday but my parents were smart and they got another dog to lower the pain but not to replace him. have you ever thought of getting another dog? it really does help!

Answer 71

I'm sorry to heard this Amy, its really hard to lose anything that you love in your life, you have to remember the good times you had with your pup, and remember Amy there's a poor other dog out there that needs your love ,because it sounds to me that you gave your dog a lot of it, and i know about losing a good friend dog i had to put my old man dog down about a month ago June10Th he was 12 years old and had neck cancer, and my sister brought a puppy over to my house before that in march, and someone abandoned my dog now in a show storm wen she was a few weeks old ,my sister couldn't keep her, i didn't want her because she was a pup and a pit bull at that , don't take me wrong she will never take my old man dogs place in my heart ,but she is a sweetheart and we love her fat looking face, she helped to heal are hearts, not that i don't think about him and miss him , because i do are i see something that reminds me of him, are a dog that looked like him , yes it still hurts ,but than Roxy my 7 month old pit bull puppy girl comes up to me and puts her big smooches face in mine or has one of my husbands sock in her mouth, are my daughters thong, yes and she runs out with them in her mouth while we have guest over, well go found a new dog you can love and let it love you back ,don't worry your pain and crying is normal, good-luck

Answer 72

talk to other people who lost a dog or who own one. my dog died in may from lyme disease and was just getting sick, had all these hip problems it got so bad he couldnt get up. it was sad but he had to go down because of the pain. im sorry your dog died. dont buy a dog until you know you are ready to move on. just saying that because you need to cope and have time to yourself. think about the good times : )

Answer 73

i know this sounds like a bad idea but get a different type of dog when it is still a puppy and that might take your mind away from your other dog

Answer 74

i felt the same way when my dog died. I could stop crying for weeks. she was still to young die in an early age.. i could stop thinking about her. Everytime i think about it i start to cry.



but Thinking about ur dog isn't good for u. U need to get another dog and hopefully u start to bond with it. Like u did with ur other dog. Alot of ppl when they lose there pets they dont want to get another one. But it only makes it worse for them. they still feel upset about it.



just get another dog and love it like u loved ur other dog :)



belive me, i did that and i couldn't be any happier with my three dogs and a cat. ^_^ but i'll still remember the good old days with my first dog.



---

p.s. when i first got another dog right away. That puppy started to act exaclty like my first dog.. like it Reincarnated from my old dog. it was so cool. ^_^ i felt even happier about it. Like she came back in a diffrent body or something.



sounds weard but it's true. ^^;

Answer 75

I'm sorry but grief is a natural thing and you must allow yourself time to do it. You will know when the time is right for you to think about getting a new pet but please take your time.

The crying will stop and you will remember the good times. though this could take some time. I wish you well.

Answer 76

Everything passes away in life you just got to learn to accept it,mabe one day you can get another dog but this time you have to learn and know that everything passes away thats just how life is.im sorry to hear he passed away one day you will get over it just know you had him for that certain amount of time.

Answer 77

Okay, it will be okay, I know what you are going through



In Sept. 2004, I had to put down one of my Min. Schnauzers due to cancer, he was 17 yrs old and we had had him since he was 8 wks old.....he was my baby and most of all my best friend and family.



I cried every night, and it was not just a cry here and there it lasted forever, and today, when I am in my den on the computer, his little casket and picture is on my desk, and I still cry for him.



but, you have to move on, really you do, now, you need to get another dog and soon, really you do, you need someone to love and to come home to.......it will be the best thing for your sad heart.



my husband took me, and it was one month to the date that my little Pepper was put down, we went to Oklahoma, I had no idea what he was doing, till we pulled into the kennel gate and I said no, I dont want another baby yet...he had already called the breeder, in which I had gotten Pepper from and she had a litter of show pups, I didnt want another show pup, and no dog for that matter....but, I picked one out, rather he picked me out, he came to me and would not leave me alone, we took him home...he laid in my lap all the way home on his back, with all four legs in the air, and slept, and when he woke up, he would just stare me down, I had to turn my head away from him....



we got home 5 hours later, and he kept just following me everywhere, and would not leave me alone, it took me a good week to accept him in the house.....and then it was pure love.....he started sleeping with us, he would curl up to me at night, under the covers, on his back......



and to this day, everytime I say goodnight Demon, he runs to the bed and is the first one under the covers on his back, up against my hubbys back with all four legs in the air for the night.



now, please, dont take this the wrong way, you will always have your babies wonderful memories, but its time to move on, get another dog, and enjoy all that love again, another dog will give you so much love, it will do you good....



and dont think by getting another dog you will be forgetting your best friend, because your not.......that baby will always be in your heart.......and the heart now needs to heal, give another little or large dog a new home, and share all the love you have for another dog..........give a new dog a great home, you will feel so much better, trust me.....it helps the heart mend.



good luck...



and if you need to talk, email me anytime you want, it will be 4 yrs Sept. 8th my pepper has been gone, and yes it still hurts, it always will, just not as much........



God bless you, and I am really sorry you are hurting so bad.



You need to get out, start by going and finding you a new little dog to love, you know they give us unconditional love, and a million tons of it, and all they want in return is for you to be happy and love them back..

Answer 78

Well you could get another puppy.. but I'd stear clear of the same breed of dog and the same color cause or don't name it after the one you just lost, cause then you'll always try comparing the two dogs, and that wouldn't be fair to you or to your new puppy.. But if u had a new puppy that might help? you will never forget the one you lost trust me I know... Been there done that..

GOOD LUCK

Answer 79

I am so sorry for your loss. When my cat and dog passed (years apart) I used this website to connect with people that understood and some that were going through the exact thing. It helped me tremendously. Good luck to you.

http://www.pet-loss.net/links.html

Answer 80

It might help you to give the pet loss hot line a call. They can help you understand and work through your grief.



1-888-478-7574

Answer 81

I think that you should think about what your dog would want. Would he/she want you to cry about her death? or cherish the moments she was alive? Think about all the good times you spent with your dog and all the happy memories you have from when he/she was alive.

Answer 82

First of all, don't listen to the idiot person who told you to touch yourself. It's idiotic. Use your better judgement. I'm sorry your pet died. When my baby rat died, I felt like my heart had been ripped out. Maybe some closure??? Have a proper funerel, pray about it, no doubt that she's in doggy heaven. Write in a diary about it, maybe poems if you are a good writer. Maybe talk to your mom, or if you are ready, distract yourself from it by getting another dog.

Answer 83

well i had the same problem but he dident die my dad gave all my dogs away (i had 6 dogs) to stop crying get a best freind mybe more than a friend.Do something you really like to do like sport or other stuff like that.Oh and sorry what happen to ur dog i know what it feels like

Answer 84

THIS IS A TERRIBLE TIME FOR YOU, AS IT IS LIKE LOOSING A MEMBER OF YOUR FAMILY..

WHEN I LOST MY FIRST SPANIEL, I CRIED AND CRIED, NOTHING OR NO ONE COULD CONSOLE ME..

BUT THEN ONE DAY MY HUSBAND CAME HOME WITH A LITTLE BLACK BUNDLE WHICH SAT IN THE PAM OF HIS HAND, BEN THE NEW LOVE OF MY LIFE..

HE HELPED ME TO GET OVER THE GRIEF OF LOOSING MY JAKEY..I NEVER STOPPED THINKING ABOUT HIM BUT HAVING BEN MADE ME SEE WHAT I HAD BEEN MISSING AFTER LOOSING A DOG..SOME WILL TELL YOU, NEVER GET ANOTHER DOG, BUT I AM SORRY I DO NOT AGREE, IT WAS THE ONE THING THAT HELPED ME OUT OF MY DEPRESSION..

BEN WAS LIKE A TONIC WHO HAD PULLED ME OUT OF A NIGHTMARE..



GET ANOTHER LITTLE FLUFFY BUNDLE TO LOVE, YOU WILL NOT DISHONOUR THE MEMORY OF THE DOG YOU LOST, BY LOVING ANOTHER..IT WILL HELP YOU AS I WAS NEVER HAPPIER..

HOPE THIS WILL HELP YOU AS I UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FEEL..TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND I HOPE YOU WILL SOON BE RUNNING AROUND AFTER A LITTLE MONKEY TEARING LUMPS OUT OF YOUR TOILET PAPER..XXX

Answer 85

think of the good times you had with your pet

its hard to get over but would he/she want to see you upset and crying?

a cry every now and then is ok, its good to let it out



looking at photographs and thinking of the good old days is a good way to get over the loss

Answer 86

get another dog. after all you dog who passed away wouldn't want you to be sad like this. its time for another creature to enter your life.

Answer 87

My dad has been like this for years. Even after we got him a new pet. If anyone has the answer let me know!

Answer 88

i'm so sorry. i don't know how i can help you. my dog is getting close to his time and i cry just thinking about it. there is no replacement for the love your best friend gave you. all i can offer is my condolences.

Answer 89

just thinking that one day you will be with your beloved dog in a better place, now try to get a dog from the shelter and it will be better, one day.

Answer 90

same as = i kept her collar = looked at photos and remembered the good time and what a loyal friend she was = it cheered me up just to think how lucky i was to have had her for a very special 13 years!

Answer 91

your dog is in a good place....

http://rainbowsbridge.com/Poem.htm

loosing a pet is never easy, but you have to think of all of the good times you had together, not her death, or the sad times. Be happy for her that she had a good life. Im sure she wouldn't want you to cry about her every night, your pal would want you to be happy. Sorry for your loss.



EDIT: Be happy she lived.

Maybe it is time if you are ready, to think about getting a new pet to keep you company.

Answer 92

Aww, talk to an adult about it, maybe get councelling of how to overcome it, and make your self a bit brighter, good luck, and .r.i.p. to your lovely dog xxx

Answer 93

you cant stop crying cause it was your pal the one who made you happy i no how feel i had 2 dogs in the past but you need to remember the good memories and you will stop crying it just takes time

Answer 94

maybe you should get another dog to help you out. obviously you wont forget your dog, but maybe itll help you do something rather than think about your old dog.

Answer 95

Death is a natural part of life, its not a bad thing.

Remember the good times you had with your pet.



If you do get another pet I suggest a cat, they are very affectionate.

Answer 96

oh i am very sorry about that but i think you should get a new dog probably the same breed.

Answer 97

awww.. how about getting yourself a new puppy? maybe the same breed, similar colour and name the pup the same name. maybe you'll be happier. take it as its a rebirth of your little angel. i hope you'll be happy. i do understand how your're feeling right now. cheer up!!

Answer 98

Same thing happened to me when my dog passed away. Buy another dog similar to the one that passed away and you begin to love him/her just as much as you did the other.

Answer 99

keep crying as needed, and maybe get a new dog. just take you time. don't rush it

Answer 100

buy a new dog or visit shelter to look at animals

Answer 101

ok same thing happened to me i put a picture of him on my wall to make me think he was still with and dude your dog is always with upi no matter what

Answer 102

the same thing happened to my cat

try to do cool things like sleepovers with friends or any type of activitie,sport or club sometimes you dont think about it as much

Answer 103

may be go to the pound and get a new dog thats haveing a hard time like you.

Answer 104

well your pet was prob old or sick but he/she is pro in a better place but just remember him or her as they where and if it helps u must move on ......get a pet to be by your side u must move on but never forget them completely with love (from cilla a 13 yer old)

Answer 105

if you have lots of pics of him/her around your place, put them away in chets , with his toys or bones ,and maybe get a new dog.And if you do don't conpare him/her with the dog you get.Hope this works.

Answer 106

i am sorry for your lost. You can try getting a new dog, but always remember that they'll never replace him/her.

Answer 107

New pet will diminish your pain but to be happy it takes time.

Answer 108

Nothing. It's just gonna take time.

Sorry for your loss.

Answer 109

well you could buy a new one and try to let go.i myself have a dog and hes 8 and im scared he will die soon and i think ill be in your shoes soon :/ i hope not

Answer 110

Consider getting a new pet.

Answer 111

Go to the shelter and get another dog!!!!!!!

Answer 112

get a new dog... of the same breed.... and name it the same as was ur old dog.... this may help u to stop crying

Answer 113

well,if you get another pet and you bond with it and it dies won`t you start crying all over again? yes, you would,you can get another one!

Answer 114

Why dont you get a new pet.It will take ur mind off of the other one

Answer 115

If you're still crying and its already been almost a year you may have deeper underlying problems then the dead pooch. If the first person you went to talk to try someone else a councilor or a friend.

Answer 116

i still cry about mine sometimes too..he passed in late december. i loved him so much, but i know he was suffering and it was his time. if you feel comfortable with it, get a new puppy, or a parrot, it will probably outlive you..

Answer 117

work a lot. get a new puppy. just cry it out till it stops. i'm not sure. i hope you will be alright. sometimes, i cry about past pets too. it didn't take me as long to heal.. but i think you will.

Answer 118

well get another dog

Answer 119

get a new little cute puppy

Answer 120

get a new dog!

Answer 121

Get a new dog or see a psychologist.

Answer 122

get a new puppy ! puppies always make people happy! and it will keep you busy!

Answer 123

don't think about it so much.i know it hurts.but don't think about it.

Answer 124

Get a new dog.

A little one.

They are so cute.

Answer 125

get another one

Answer 126

get new dog.

Answer 127

Get a puppy but remember a dogs lifespan is a fraction of yours.

Answer 128

my dog died around that time 2

the best thing to do is get another dog , give him a name and everything hope that helps

Answer 129

Is it time for a new pet... that might keep you from crying...

Answer 130

new pet!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 131

get over it duh!

Answer 132

I'm sorry, but this is ridiculous behavior to the point where it's borderline dysfunctional. Snap out of it or see a psychiatrist.

Answer 133

dude. buy a new dog.