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2008-09-07 13:34:24 UTC
I just left a friend of mine's house. Her son (who is only 2 years younger than myself) was there for the weekend. He lives with his girlfriend in an apartment and is a full time college student, along with having a job. They recently acquired a deaf English bulldog puppy (girlfriend works at a vet's office and this breeder gave it to her for a "deal). They also currently have two other dogs (one of which has just come back to live with my friend most of the time), a cat, two sugar gliders and a tank full of fish. We were all chatting and he mentioned that he want to breed Madden (the deaf bulldog). When I asked him why, he said:
"Because I want to have a male bulldog and she's so brilliant and a great example of her breed, and the vet Autum works for said there wouldn't be a problem breeding her." And I think my head almost exploded with reasons why they shouldn't and I literally bit my tongue to avoid blurting out "But...but...SHE'S DEAF!!" That's a *problem*, right? I'm not just making that up in my head? What vet would tell a kid with THAT many animals and that little amount of time available that breeding her would be fine? There were jsut so many statements in there that I wanted to come back with a counter.
Want a male bulldog? Rescue one or get one from a breeder. Why put your female through that just to get a male? What if she doesn't HAVE any males?
She's brilliant...great! So is mine! There are thousands of brilliant dogs out there...should they be reproducing based on that alone?
She's a great example of her breed...why do you say that? Because she's smart? Because, in stature, she's very close to standard? Doesn't change the fact that you're talking about breeding a deaf dog.
And you have SO LITTLE TIME available to you right now anyway and will continue to be busy for the next 3-4 years (the girl is only about 4-5 months old), what about this appeals to you?
The vet said it would be okay...your vet said *what*?
So..vet techs, vet workers...what would your vet say about this? Is it rare to find a vet that knows his stuff about breeding? Or is it rare to find a vet who *doesn't*?
Breeders...am I wrong? Isn't a deaf dog a MAJOR reason not to have her reproducing? Isn't she clearly NOT a great "example of her breed"?
If you try to talk to a person about not breeding their dog...how do you start the conversation? Do you ask, "Can I play devil's advocate here for a minute?" Do you just come out with all your facts and beliefs? Or do you just not say anything unless someone specifically asks you? Do you just email them articles about breeding responsibly? I don't think I am bold enough to just start running my mouth, especially to someone who may not want to hear that their idea isn't the most intelligent one they've ever had (this kid is, in general, impulsive...but the idea still shocked me because the live-in girlfriend WORKS at a vet's office and I figured she would know about this stuff already), but I would love to get across to him, at some point, in the most respectful way I can, that NO, this is NOT a great idea.
So...breeders, vet workers, all of my contacts out there with fabulous knowledge far great than my own...where do you even start? Or do you just keep your mouth shut to avoid confrontation? Star for me if you think this is interesting...I would LOVE answers from all across the board. Happy Sunday!