I honestly want to give my puppy back to the breeder....?

Question

I feel like a terrible person! But this puppy is driving me crazy! When I got her the breeder said she was the most laid back and lazy puppy they had, and she seemed that way. But she is honestly the most stressful puppy I've ever had. She is always going, never wants to be cuddled, snaps at us, constantly goes to the bathroom inside literally within a 1-3 minutes of us just coming back inside with her. My roommates are fed up with her, she terrorizes the cat. Literally none of the puppies I've ever had have been like her. She's a devil.

Now the question is, I got her from a breeder. And I don't want to feel like I wasted hundreds of dollars on an AKC puppy but I also didn't get a receipt or a formal contract as the breeder is just very small. Do breeders typically refund puppies? I've had her under a week.

Answer 1

There is almost always a way back from the brink (taking her back) - others will advise. However if you really have come to the end of your rope, then of course take her back. There's no shame in admitting a mistake and it would be far better to do that, then end up taking your frustration out on this innocent puppy.



But don't look for /necessarily expect a full refund. You really should have had a sales contract (small breeder or not). I suggest that most breeders probably would make you a refund, once they have another sale - maybe not a full one...... I'd suggest that might depend on how soon they can get the puppy into another home and could involve you getting your money back, less a minimal 'boarding fee'.



ps Did you take her to your own vet within 48 hours of bringing her home. Her constant need to empty isn't normal, even for a puppy of 8 weeks (which I hope she is). Could suggest a big part of what's going on is down to a medical problem. An immature bladder, or even a UTI (pee) - abrupt switch of diet (the other!).

Answer 2

Without a contract your breeder can do anything she wishes about the pup. Most good breeders will make sure a puppy buyer gets a health contract when they buy a puppy. As a breeder, my contract guaranteed that at any time someone can't keep one of my pups (no reason has to be given) I will take the puppy back and if the pup is healthy I will refund the money they paid for the puppy.

If you didn't get a written contract I have no idea what this breeder will do. Call and find out

Answer 3

For one, you can tell the breeder she misinformed you about the puppy being lazy and laid back and

calm.



Tell them, the dog is totally the opposite and you must return the dog now.



You did not get a receipt, you did not get any health guarantee on the dog at all.



No breeder does this, you got a puppy from a Back Yard Lousy Breeder, that will probably take the dog back, but your money is also probably long gone.



Back Yard breeders do not refund any monies, that is what they do, lie and cheat you into thinking this puppy is the best one of the litter, and that is what they did.



Sorry, you can try, but doubt your money will be refunded.



Please next time, you want to get a dog, go to a shelter, or rescues, or adoption center.



No backyard breeders, no pet stores, Pet Stores get their puppies from Puppy Mills and backyard breeders and the little things are always sick.



Call the breeder and see what happens, be nice and polite, if they will not take the dog back, then let them know, you represented this dog in a fraudulent manner, you lied when you said it was so calm and laid back. Just give it to them good, then let them know, your filing a Fraud report with the police, you probably will not, but that may scare them into taking the dog back and giving you a refund.



Next time, before you buy, ask for 10 references of past buyers, and run them through the Better Business Bureau, get a health certificate, one that is less than 30 days old, ask for their Vets number name of the Vet, call the Vet and ask how well they take care of their dogs.



Get a lifetime guarantee on all genetic defects, and a one year health guarantee on any Illness that may take a bit longer to show up in a puppy. or dog.



Make sure you never buy a puppy less than 8 weeks old, it looses some of it's immune from the mother if you do. I never ever let any of my pups go before 142 weeks old.



After buying your puppy, take to your vet within 48 hours, for a full vet checkup, with the contract stating anything wrong with the puppy, you can return the dog for a full refund.



Make sure you get a written contract on any dog or puppy you buy from a breeder, any breeder you buy from, should be a member of the National Dog Club for the breed they are selling, if not, walk away, do not buy from that breeder.



You should go to www.americankennelclub.com



You can research all the breeds to be able to buy, and you can get a list of registered breeders in our area, that are good breeders and listed with the AKC and their National Dog Club for that breed.



And you can also email them, they will be happy to help you find a good breeder, the breeders on the website, will even call you or email you back...it is the best way to get a really good dog.



Do not ever deal with a breeder that is not with a National Dog Club or is not a part of the AKC Breeders List...they are the best.



I wsh you all the luck. Sorry you bought from a bad breeder, it gives great breeders a bad name for something like to happen to someone.



Do not get frustrated please, there are some really great breeders out there, you just have to find them.'

Answer 4

Well-bred puppies are sold under contract regardless of the numbers of dogs they have, as its sets out the right and obligations of both parties and typically includes a term that the dog must be returned to its breeder if the owner for whatever reason cannot keep it.



A puppy can behave one way for one person and completely differently for another, depending on its nature and the person who owns it.



The behavior described is not uncommon in a pup, but agree that she does need a different owner who can get the upper hand in the relationship by showing firm, level-headed, fair and consistent leadership, training, boundaries, routine and structure and the right attitude for that particular puppy, who may be more work that others willing to push back.



A refund would be discretionary because there is nothing wrong with the pup other than its character is not want you want. Ask and see what they offer. It would be reasonable to offer a partial refund upfront and pay the balance when she is sold, less the cost of keeping her and any difference in sale price.

Answer 5

Breeders who don't even give you a receipt, let alone a contract, are usually BACK YARD BREEDERS who are out to make money and don't care about the welfare of what they produce or anything about the buyer either. The only thing you can do is call this breeder and ask, but I doubt she'll take the puppy back and give you your money back. She might take the puppy back without giving you a refund, and then turn around and resell it again, which will make her twice the money on the same puppy. Even the most laid back of puppies can be a handful, and since you're saying this one is driving you crazy, I'm just going to have to take your word for it BUT even if you were to get another puppy, it just might turn out to be the same. Why not just have a little patience and WORK on training this puppy. ALL puppies are WORK, and that's what ANY buyer of ANY puppy should expect before they make a purchase. Anyway, no, I don't think this BACK YARD BREEDER will take the puppy back let alone give you a refund.

Answer 6

Most breeders will happily take back a dog they have bred, at any stage in its life, but you will not get a refund.



Refunds on puppies are only generally done if the puppy has been diagnosed with a condition which is a result of poor breeding, but even then only if it is diagnosed ithing the first two weeks or so of it leaving the breeder.

Answer 7

Well.. I definitely think i am responsible for letting my PPO know about any genetic health issues.. which obviously there would be none because I do not breed dogs with genetic health issues... that is why I have them OFA, CERF at 2 years old. If have never had a pup pass away on me.. I have had to bottle feed a few in my day.. but never had an actual problem.. All pups came out healthy. If I have a large litter.. I enjoy explaining it to the PPO because generally when you have a large litter.. 11+pups.. often, one passes. But I do let them know if we needed to hand feed any of them, because they are actually very interested. So far, I have not had any problems.. I would much rather be honest because there is nothing I need to lie about.. If I needed to lie about something.. I shouldn't be breeding.

Answer 8

A honest Breeder that is in a National Club should refund the money, but do they... I would return the pup.. Brings back memories, my first bull terrier was like that. I was going to return her, but I was on the phone daily with my Breeder for advice.. Do not feel ashamed, Breeders get the big bucks and should support you. I worked threw my issues with the dog and after she passed away, I got another:)o. Best to you...

Answer 9

Have you ever had another puppy before?



This is what all puppies do, do not worry. What kind of dog is she? Some dogs, like hounds, are super hyper and find it hard to pay attention.



As for the indoor bathroom peeing, by some puppy-pads at the dollar store, worked for me. Let her out regulary and praise her when she goes outside, and say a simple, firm "no" when she has an accident- they don't know their doing anything wrong. Don't shove her nose into it, dont hit her or yell. Just say no, then put her outside.



You may want to see a proffesional trainor if this behavior continues.

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If you really want to get rid of her, see if any friends or local adds looking to adopt a puppy. DO NOT give her to a puppy-mill or shelter. MAYBE a no-killed shelter. Make an add on craigslist if all else fails.



GOOD LUCK :)!

Answer 10

A quite puppy usually isn't normal/healthy, they might have behavioural problems, like yours

Chosing an active puppy will give more guarantee on behaviour and health



idk if the breeder would refund it, try to contact him and ask

But call with someone elses phone, so he doesn't recognize your number, because maybe he gave you this puppy because he already had experienced its problems and doesn't want to take it back

So just say 'i bought a puppy from you a while ago', so he doesn't know who you are

Answer 11

You got this dog from a BYB that had no contract. They are not going to take the dog back. You need to start obedience classes with the pup and learn how to train, socialize and exercise this pup.

Answer 12

You have to train her ...she doesnt no any better.

N no u wont get ur money back but you cld try selling her