Question:
What's a good even tempered dog for children...?
Laterj1
2006-10-20 20:37:27 UTC
I'm thinking of getting a puppy when my youngest son gets a little older and is finished potty training. What's a good even tempered dog that's good with children. I was thinking of a bull mastiff. big, intimidating, but good with children.
27 answers:
Heather C
2006-10-20 20:47:11 UTC
If you want a small dog I have a puggle he is so good with my kids and anyone who comes to visit.... Big dog i would go with a Lab they are so sweet
Nightwriter21
2006-10-21 04:20:46 UTC
A bull mastiff, huh? That sounds the ideal dog for a child who's just completed potty training. Yet, in all seriousness, they, along with the Great Dane, can be ideal companions for children. I'll never forget seeing two children bathing their mastiff in a wading pool, and how still and patiently the dog stood as they sponged and doused him with water from a hose. You can bet that no one would mess with your kid when he was playing in the yard with the dog, either.



Yet, I can't help but agree with those above who pick the border collie or Australian shepherd as good choices. I had an Australian shepherd-snouser mix, and besides being fearless, he was the gentlest of dogs. Even once when he was badly hurt internally, he wouldn't bite me when I tried to find the cause, but put my hand in his teeth just to caution me until I showed him I wouldn't cause him more pain. Another good choice, I think, is the cocker spaniel. They can be a little snappish and possessive, but a child would quickly learn to respect it.



Every boy should have a dog. Yet, I feel the child should be old enough to take at least some care of it. You might take that into consideration.
QandAGuy
2006-10-21 03:50:36 UTC
Actually, we were at the dog park today and met a woman with a bull mastiff. She echoed what you said- wonderful personality, great with kids, and great for scaring away nasty people with a look. The one at the park was huge (horse-like) but a total mama's boy- so good natured.



Any lab is good, but you need so much time when they are puppies because they are pure energy. We got our last golden/lab mix when it drove a family with young kids crazy. We have a lab-poodle mix now and he needs all your attention. Apparently the bigger dogs (mastiffs) grow up faster so while they have puppy issues it's not like a lab - who is goofy until 2 or 3 years old. So get a lab if you want but be very ready for the time required to make them good dogs.



Austrailian sheps are similar- very smart but need lots of time and attention- which is not ideal if you don't have lots of land and/or time.



My honest suggestion is adopt a year to year and half old dog when you have young kids. They are more mature- but still young enough to train. Even a lab at that age is decent.
anonymous
2006-10-21 04:26:35 UTC
I don't think the people here who recommended a Lab or a Golden noticed that you asked for a dog that can be intimidating. Retrievers are wonderful with kids, but they couldn't intimidate a sparrow. I'd say a Boxer-mix would fit your needs very well. Boxers are very even-tempered, playful and affectionate, but also quite strong and naturally protective of children. I recommend mixed-breed dogs because they make much better companions than purebreds--as a rule they are healthier, happier, longer-lived, more intelligent, less neurotic, and a lot less expensive. Plus, if you adopt from a shelter or rescue group, the pooch will never forget that you RESCUED him/her.

Best of luck!
Shadow's Melon
2006-10-21 04:22:40 UTC
We recently added a puppy to our home, in part, for the children. We already had 2 dogs, but they are older and not interested in playing with our boys (ages 3 and 5).



So we did some research and were in a toss up between a Golden Retriever and a Border Collie. Both are wonderful dogs with good personalities and make great family pets. We decided to go with a Border Collie, but this is a decision we made with a lot of research first. BC's are wonderful dogs, but they require a great deal of commitment from their owners when it comes to their intelligence and activity levels. They can get bored easily and destructive behavior is often the result. They are very smart and need more than just the daily walk. They need something that will mentally stimulate them, like taking on a sport such as flyball, agility or frisbee. It gives them a job and makes a much happier BC.



So if this is a breed you are considering, be sure to research them to make sure they are a good fit for your family's activity level. We decided to persue agility and obedience training with ours. She catches on to all her training so fast... it's truly amazing to see. And that intense stare they get is so intriguing... you can just see the wheels spinning inside!
dobes
2006-10-21 05:37:43 UTC
I've seen what everyone has written - I like the labs and goldens for children - but they are active and take some time to train. However, some of the suggestions I have to question & and I have to ask - WHO are you protecting these children from? Are you not going to be there? I don't think that's what you meant. Most of the time children are around other children and many of the breeds suggested while friendly toward your own children are not so crazy about OTHER children. In today's society - you have to be very careful. I would be wary of the snappy cocker spaniel and Austrailian shepard. They will probably love your children but not your children's friends when they come to play.
t
2006-10-21 05:12:13 UTC
labs are great and so are golden retrievers



collies can have separation anxiety and be destructive if they do not have a lot of space and things to do



you should be careful with mastiffs because they extremely prone to hip problems as are labs but not as much.



you could also try just getting a mixed breed from a humane society. some experts not postulate that mixed breeds can actually be more even tempered (if you get them as a puppy/ excluding dogs that have been abused) and have less health problems than pure breeds because when you breed for certain trait you inevitably get other traits that you don't want such as hyperactivity and certain health problems.



Try talking to a vet to see what they recomend.
anonymous
2006-10-21 04:18:50 UTC
Yes a bull mastiff is a great guard dog and an awesome family dog as well, great Danes are real good to pit bulls are great with kids though some people think there mean and vicious animals there not there very good with family. saint Bernard's are great to. if you love big dogs some medium sized dogs there are Brittany spaniels i have one and she's great there very caring but are Farly friendly tords strangers. German shepherds are also really good dogs to have there very friendly with the family and kids and very protective of the family also. Newfoundlands are nice dogs to have around there big friendly and very protective of the family. i hope I've helped a little.
SmartStuff
2006-10-21 04:18:27 UTC
From personal experience, i would say a labrador. i have 2. i feel secure with them by my side. A golden retriever is also a very smart keen dog and sometimes easier to potty train. If u need more info check out my sources below.
Melvina
2006-10-21 03:50:22 UTC
I am 17 and my family has had a Lab for as long as I can remember. They aren't the biggest dogs but you could try to find a large one. Anyway, you son will be able to pull tails and twist ears and a Lab won't bite, Very sweet doggie
Robyn C
2006-10-21 03:45:20 UTC
The best family dogs are border collies or australian shepherd even the mix between the two. I had a border collie growing up who was great around me and my sisters, but very protective of us. I have a border collie/australian shep mix female now and she is the best dog! Great with my small girls, patient and loving, but protective as all get out.
softball blonde
2006-10-21 03:57:08 UTC
Lab can be hyper

terriers are mellow

I thing Greyhounds are great.

I have been growing up with on and she is quiet and melow you can trian them easy. Most ppl would not think of a greyhound but research it.
shadowwizard2
2006-10-21 03:51:25 UTC
i have a jack russel and she's great with my 1 year old, but I grew up with yellow labs and golden retrievers, they're really good family dogs and very protective of kids
anonymous
2006-10-21 03:58:50 UTC
its worth thinking about a mongral,or maybe a border collie they love to look after things by nature.greyhounds are wonderfull loving dogs as well. but my all time fav will kids if the breaded collie they are big soft hairballs.
daniel m
2006-10-21 11:23:51 UTC
Springers are great with kids, find reputable breeder for any dog you choose and meet the parents!
demsareidiots
2006-10-21 03:40:18 UTC
Australia shepherds
anonymous
2006-10-21 05:27:11 UTC
Boxers are fantastic with children
bigjoe
2006-10-21 03:40:10 UTC
West Highland Terrier. They are great with kids and don't shed. I have two and they are so cute!
***
2006-10-21 04:45:57 UTC
My pug loves kids! Dobermans, German sheps are also great with kids if you get them as pups.
Ann
2006-10-21 03:59:22 UTC
Labrador retreivers and collies.
Linx
2006-10-21 03:43:55 UTC
black labs all the way you could do anything to them(not that you would WANT to or any thing) and they will always love you, labs, Golden retrievers definitely,boxers, hope that helps!
Jacks036
2006-10-21 03:40:59 UTC
The absolute best is a lab.

Second is a sheltie.
onecent1232003
2006-10-21 03:46:31 UTC
lab, beagle, mastiff would be ok.
TheExile
2006-10-21 03:45:21 UTC
a lab
♥Hott Blonde♥
2006-10-21 04:31:12 UTC
♥OMG LAB R THE BEST FOR KIDS THEY R LOYAL AND NICE.♥
anonymous
2006-10-21 03:57:44 UTC
COCKER SPANIALS ARE THE BEST.
Ann A
2006-10-21 05:59:48 UTC
WOW - well the kids use him for a pony!



With kids under 10 or 12, I strongly recommend one of the herding, herd guarding or non-sporting breeds. Breeds that are of a size for them to hug and cuddle up with but without the dog flattening the child if he rolls over on them are good.



Several of the non-sporting adore racing and playing and can fit on the bed with them without having to buy the kids a king size bed each.



I grew up with Bostons and start competing them in AKC obedience at 9 years old.



Pugs are hoot - just watch the bloodlines as they are running about 60% abnormal on hips and elbows and 11% on patellas.



I have a preference for the herding group for kids as they cling so closely to them and want to watch over them. In that group, there is a smorgasboard of breeds. They go in size from the little guys like Shelties and Corgis to Autralian Shepards to Collies, Belgian Teruvens, Belgian Shepards, and finally Bouvier des Flanders. I would give a miss to Australian Catle Dogs (tend to be nippy), Border Collies (obsessive complusive hyperactives - great performance dogs, tiring as pets), Belgian Malnois (great trackers and police dogs - little too defensive and might take out the kids' playmates). and ditto on the German Shepherd (and we don't even want to go there on their soundness and health prolbems!)



Now Belgian Teruvens, Belgian Sheepdogs and Bouviers have the size since you like the larger breeds although smaller than Mastiffs, are incredibly eager to learn and easy to train, smart as a whip and very, very devoted. (Some Bouviers have a strong prey drive and do Shutzhund but most don't. My vet just got his 3rd for his kids.) They are 3 of my personal favorites for an all around dog - family pet, performance in obedience and tracking, and intimidating potential evil-doers ( and they can take them out if necessary.).



In the working group, herd guarding candidates are the Bernese Mountain Dog (if you can take having a dog that could die somewhere between 4 and 8, typically of cancer); Great Pyreenes and Newfoundlands. Then there is the Kuvasz - ancestor of the Pyreenes and in size, kind of in the middle between the Pyr and a Golden, and still a working herd guarding breed in active use for its purpose. I just placed a 4 year old Kuvasz as the Service Dog for a 4 year old autistic child - his brother has been BOS at Westminster 2 years running and his dam was a Group place winner at Westminster as was his sister - watch the bloodlines on this breed as some are not as flexible and tend to be very guardy (the kid's playmates again) but this dog's particular family has a wonderfully stable temperment and are outgoing and Golden-like friendly but have still swung into action and blocked not-nice people and scared them away - and did it on instinct. Other Kuvs that I know are the family guardian of kids 2 through 8 - the youngest learned to walk hanging on to the dog. This is another breed that will defend its charges and family unto the death. They do not go into comabt easily - first warning, shoving their charges back and away from harm, then blocking the threat from approaching, and then knocking the threat back and away but if forced to go into combat if the threat doesn't get the message, they are one of the few breeds that will self-sacrifice and even dying will stay in the fight to save their charges. The Nazis tried to exterminate the breed because of their "never surrender, fight unto the death" defense of their home and family - and they almost succeeded leaving only 8-10 breedable Kuvasz alive in Hungary at the end of the war.



I would stay away from the guarding dogs in the wroking group. They have a very high prey drive meaning they want to chase and catch and grab. Not so good with the kids' playmates. That would include the Dobe, Giant Schnauzer, Boxers (very strong and hard to persuade that "come" means "come.") The guarding breeds, because of that prey drive, can get a bit too rough in play for kids under 12 or so.



I would stay away from the hounds - unless you enjoy foot races after the dog when he has cleared the 5 ft fence or tunneled out except for one in that group.



The one exception is the Rhodesian Ridgeback. Now they aren't thrilled about playing in the snow - that short coat since they are from Africa. They are in the hound group but they were really a herd guarding who also was used secondarily for hunting. They are incredibly devoted (think velcro dogs), friendly and patient; but let someone threaten their charges and all bets are off. A Rhodesian who had 3 little girls in his charge got the Kennel Ration Hero of the Year when he foiled a pedophile's attempt to kidnap the one child from the bedroom - attacked as the creep who had come in the 2nd story window, was carrying her down the stairs gagged (no bark, no growl just flat out to kill), never touched her and ripped him to shreds. He dropped her and the Rhodie, instead chasing him, put his body over top of the child and woke the household. The police followed the blood and caught him. The canine hero went back to playing with his kids and sleeping on their beds.





(Hmmm..... pretty easy too figure out my top 5 large breeds for watching over home and family but still being a great pet!)



Terriers can be tough in their temperments - fun dogs for romping but they consider "come" to open to negotiation and they'll get back to you.



The sporting breeds are usually high energy. The current popular favorites of Goldens and Labs are sufferring from the effects of being loved too much by too many. Goldens now have the dubious distinction of being the No 1 breed in biting the vet because they are wimps about pain - and then there are the rampant health problems - hips, allergies, a cancer rate in the top 3.....(Love them to death but after 28 years of having them, I gave up because of the way the breed had deteriorated.) The poor Labs are having the same problems now - the hips, etc and I noticed the other day, that the temperment problems must be increasing when I saw the Lab National Breed Club had posted on its breed rescue page "Lab Rescue does not work with aggression. A dog that bites will not be brought into the program." Hmmm... now what brought that on, eh???





Go to the AKC website and read in detail about the breeds



http://www.akc.org/breeds/index.cfm?nav_area=breeds



You can search by Group, Breed name or all of them at once.



Now, when you click on the picture of the dog and go to the page for that breed, on the left is a column. At the bottom of the column, is a link captioned "National Breed Club". Click on it - that takes you to the link to the National Club for that breed that sets the breed standards. The Clubs' websites will give you an ENORMOUS amount of information about the breed - the good, the bad, and the why or why not to get that breed. The clubs websites also have:

(1) a breeders list - all of whom have agreed to abide by the breeders code of ethics (which you can read)

(2) a link to the breed rescue for their breed



Do give serious thought to adopting from an adult from a breed rescue. The clubs' breed rescues go to a great deal of trouble to determine the dog's temperment, personality, likes and dislikes (particularly kids and cats and other dogs in the household), health, and level of training. They make a huge effort to match the right dog to the right home - and if they don't have one they think will be suitable for your home, they won't place it. Great way to avoid the puppy training, newpapers, chewing.......



If you decide to get a puppy so they grow up with the childen, please use one of the breeders who are members of the breed club. A well-bred pet puppy may not be a candidate for the show ring (that nose being 1/8th of an inch to long or something else very picky) but they will be very healthy, the parents carefully screened for hereditary health problems, and from a breeder who has devoted a great deal of time to understanding the breed and bloodlines. A responsible breeder will have a written contract with a health guarantee for hereditary problems; require that if for any reason you ever have to give up the dog that it comes back to them; and always be available for help, assistance and advice about your dog. Such a breeder will tell you if they don't think their breed is right for you based upon your needs. They want a perfect forever home for the puppies - not the money. (In 43 years in the dog show world, I have never known a breeder of that caliber who has made a profit on their dogs - it is labor of love.)



A puppy from such a breeder costs no more - and often less - than from a backyard breeder who doesn't do the health checks, knows nothing about the breed or bloodlines, doesn't give a guarantee, never wants to hear about the puppy again and has breed from mediocre or poor quality dogs.



Sorry for the length - a 2 line answer is facile and there is so much to consider.


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