Question:
Please help, do I have BAD DOG?
pinkytickle
2007-02-07 04:22:53 UTC
Please help me, I have a 4 mnth old German shepard, but he is out of control.He was staying in the kitchen until he was toilet trained but he goes anywhere,whenever he wants. I come downstairs every morning and he has opened every cupboard and drawer, he eats everything, eggs still in their shells, porridge oats....When I give him his dinner (3 times a day) he eats like theres no tomorrow and if I walk near him while he eats, he now snarls and growls at me, we can't get near him to give him cuddles and love without it ending in him biting me or my child who is 4yrs old, who he doesn't like much.
If we are sitting together he tries to drag her off of the couch or he jumps on top of her to sit next to me, but yet he doesn't want to give me any love when my child isn't around.
I really want to love him more, but I cannot cope with this behaviour, is it normal? What can I do? A dog is for life so I don't want to get rid of him., I really want him to be a part of our family.
54 answers:
M
2007-02-07 04:32:22 UTC
Two things.



1) The dog needs to know who is the boss of his "pack". That doesn't mean you have to hit or yell at the dog, just keep sending him off the sofa and praise him when he sits on the floor. Similarly for other things. Use a firm, low woice.



2) A german shepherd is a big dog. Are you sure he gets enough exercise? He might have too much energy and is "hyper" otherwise. As far as the food is concerned, make sure you vary the food and it should be tatsy, or he'll crave more tasty things, like eggs etc. Also, it seems he thinks of the kitchen as "his room" as you say you've kept him there since you got him. Find another place for his basket. Preferably, build him a hut in the garden.
thankyou "iana"
2007-02-07 05:27:10 UTC
Who is control here? Right now it is the dog and an aggressive dog in control with a 4yr old child in the same home is a recipe for disaster.

You need to do what everyone else is suggesting.

Take control, become leader of the pack, train the dog. But especially keep your child safe. It is insane that you have permitted the dog to bite you or the child.

This behavior is only normal when the appropriate authority has not been established. If you cannot or will not do this give the dog to someone else before something terrible happens or before the dog is completely ruined.

I cannot stress this enough, and I am not sorry if your feelings are hurt, the well being of a smallish creature and a 4-legged is in your hands and so far you dropped the ball.

Just about everything you have done is wrong.

Have you taken him to vet even?

The only thing you have done right is ask about that situation and for that you get at the very least a hopeful sigh.
V.S. K
2007-02-07 07:13:38 UTC
Hi,



Your dog needs authority, at the moment he does what he want and when he wants.



He behaves at eating time like he never had enough as a pup, and he will be very protective of its food what you give him, also he will eat anything he can find as he has been hungry when he was a pup. This does not nessesarely mean the breeder under fed him, it maybe that his brothers and sisters bullied him and he just did not get enough.



You need to be really authoritive with him and be the boss, rules should be there and there is no exeption to the rules, if he is allowed to do something one day and not the other he will keep doing it NO is NO.



A shep is a dog that can be easily trained, he will need looking after and needs his excersize, a shep is an intelligent animal and will get bored very easily.



Give him lots of toys, to chew, and play with. an excellent toy, to but for him is a training ball, this you can fill up with low protein dried dog pallets, and you adjust the entrance of the ball so that the pallets come out one by one, rather than the whole lot in the one go. This will keep him occupied and fed at the same time.



You may need help from a trainer, make sure you get one that trains pets rather than working dogs ther is a difference.



Take him also to the vet and see if he has no worms or parasites and is in good health.



I really belive you can turn your dog around, beware that he does not rule your house, you are boss, but you can do it. He you took the first step asked for help



Good luck and let me know how you got on,
Heavenly20
2007-02-07 08:07:43 UTC
How is he beeing trained?i hope you have been training him like basic obediance etc.Housetraining pups should start from the moment you bring them home,they should be taken out every hour no matter what the weather or how long your waiting out there as soon as the pup go's to the toilet praise them to the sky's.Training is the key to developing a good bond with your dog,so if your pup isn't beeing trained or is allowed to do what he wants,he's not going to have any sort of relationship with you.Make sure all contact between your pup and your child is supervised,do not let your child bother with your pup while he is eating,it's very rare that a pup would actually bite or attack hard at this early stage,but nipping obviously can be painfull esp to a child.You need to get him into training classes as there's to much i coud go through on here.As he nears adolecence though between 6-10months this problem will only become worse with your gsd.If you were a novice dog owner before buying your gsd,then you really should have gone for a more docile dog,gsd do have a dominant streak in them and like to test authority,it takes a good strong handler to train this out of them.If raised correctly a gsd is a very loyall,calm,well mannered dog who is affectionate and shows devotin to his family esp children.If i could come to you for the day,i would be able to show you things with your gsd pup that you would have never thought possible.Im training as a dog behaviourist.Good luck.
2007-02-08 07:43:10 UTC
I sort of know what you're going through. My husband bought me an adorable golden retriever puppy then 4 weeks later, I found out I was pregnant with my first child. As he was getting bigger, so was I, and I really wasn't coping too well. I got some advice from a dog trainer, which I would definitely recommend, but ask at your local vet first to see a reputable trainer, so you know your dog is getting handled well. As for the growling when you are walking past his food, well I never had that problem, but the trainer did give me some advice in which I'm sure would help you. If you feed him dried food, then don't put in his bowl and leave it for him to eat on his own accord, this only learns them that it is their food. Command him to sit, lie down, stay or come what ever you want and reward him for it by giving him his food by hand, a few pieces at a time. This will learn him, that it is not his food, and he will be rewarded when he does what is asked of him. This sounds like abit of a chore, I know, but it does work, and tires them out just as much as a big walk would as it stimulates the mind. I t also helped me alot as I was able to give my young golden alot of attention for being good instead of any negative attention. I now have an "almost" perfect dog, who I wouldn't do without for the world. Your dog is still young, so this can be nipped in the bud. Good luck,I'm sure you will be fine, they are just like toddlers aren't they? Anything for a bit of attention.
Eddie S
2007-02-07 05:05:39 UTC
Get him to a good dog trainer NOW. When you have these issues at 4 months old, imagine what they'll be like when he's 2 years old and double his size! Sounds like a mixture of food aggression and dominance issues in the home. You need to teach him (with a good trainer's help) to be the submissive member of the household. Yes, even submissive to you 4 year old child!

As for the destructive part ... my bet is he's a bored puppy that's not getting enough play time. Sheperds were bred to function as a form of working dogs. They need to do some WORK! Exercise that puppy ... he needs several hours a day to keep his body and mind satisfied. If you can't provide him with that, then you should not have signed up for a dog like that. I don't think you're going to stop the behavior in any other way (short of locking him in a crate all day). Good luck!
Pawstimes16
2007-02-07 05:36:36 UTC
You seriously need to get expert help now!! He is testing you GSD's all go through this phase but not usually until they are quite a bit older, you need to be very firm with him, they also aren't generally fond of too much cuddling, he should not be getting up onto the couch so you must stop this now, apart from the fact that he is trying to dominate you he shouldn't be going anywhere where he needs to jump down, if you have a baby gate keep him out of your lounge let him know that you are the boss and you decide where he can and can't go, buy a dog crate, one large enough to house him when he is fully grown, put him in it at night and when you go out, you have to be very assertive with German Shepherds or they will rule your life and a dominant male is not good, get him castrated asap, your vet probably won't do it until he is 6 months old but get it done please because once his male hormones kick in you will be in trouble as he is already causing problems at 4 months old! I have kept GSD's for 31 years now and have to say I haven't had this much trouble when they go through this phase, but I am quite a dominant person, ie.I am pack leader and my dogs know it! I have 3 German Shepherds and 1 Border Collie.
roxanne1470
2007-02-07 04:33:27 UTC
There is plenty of answers to all these problems and they are all quite common problems if you dont assert your authority over the dog, the dog has to know who is the boss, without you showing any fear while doing this, my advice to you would be, as you seem as though you are quite novice at owning a dog, buy a book and read it thoroughly or a video or dvd, most books and dvds have all the answers that you need, im quite sure you will find ALL the answers to you questions, did you do your homework before you bought this breed of dog ? german shepards are not what id really call a first dog, as they can be quite dangerous dogs in the wrong hands, but are also loving, trusty, loyal, faithful, if you know what you are doing, plse go get some good knowledge about this breed and bringing a new dog into the home 'ESPECIALLY' if you have young children... hope this info has helped. jane.
anwen55
2007-02-07 05:43:21 UTC
You need to get him to a training class ASAP so you can learn how to control him. I have a 5 month old GSD. At 4 months he was an absolute nightmare. He wore us out & was extremely hard work. One month later he's a dog to be proud of BUT it's taken months of very hard work to make him like that (we've had him since he was 7 weeks) Be consistent, use the Nothing in Life is Free method - don't feed him until he's obeyed your command to Sit etc. No attention until he does as he's told. Do very short training sessions with him, GSDs really do want to learn. You really do need to get a large crate for him for his own safety. Ours is shut in the "naughty" room (utility) until he's calmed down. He could do plenty of damage in there but he never has, he just wants to get back to us as soon as possible. 15 to 20 minutes later, he comes out a different dog.

Please take him to a good training class. GSDs are wonderful dogs but they do need firm handling when young. Your Vets, local library or Pet Shop should be able to tell you where there is a local one.
Opal
2007-02-07 04:37:20 UTC
Loving a dog is not like loving a child, it will not feel like it but you have to be the boss of the dog. if the dog is at all growls at you or your child stop it quickly by yelling a strong NO!! at him and send the dog outside or into another room away from you. if it continues you could get to the stage where he bites. I'd say that your dog is most likely very bored at night that's why he is opening the cupboards and remember that dogs can smell much better then us, so it's like putting you into a fast food place and saying don't eat anything. maybe a laundry is better. but most of all show the dog that your child is high on the pecking order then him and be very strong about telling the dog off, once you set the rules for the dog at a young age you will be best buddies for life. Good Luck. From a owner of big dogs to another
#1 saints fan
2007-02-11 20:11:13 UTC
Beings he is the only male he does have a dominant nature and may be terribly jealous of your child. He may feel you are his and only his. Crating can help if you do it with a positive nature. Also he may think he's the boss and obedience classes are wonderful. If all else fails take the safety of yourself and child into serious consideration and let him go. Females are generally calmer and easier to train. Best of luck. Him ignoring you is a way of him punishing you. Some dogs have the attitude that it's an honor for them to allow you to pet them, sounds like he has a chip on his shoulder, again obedience classes will put you in charge.
sarah c
2007-02-07 04:40:50 UTC
Dogs don't train themselves any more than kids do - its your job.

Toilet training is identical to potty training. You take them to the dog toilet and you reward them for using it. You do it on the hour every hour every day until they know thats the spot to use, and you teach them a command as well so in public you can let them know where to go.

Your pup is ruling the roost because you let him. You need to learn the body language, the tone of voice and the timing.

He needs a daily routine. He should be shown what to do at each point during the day. At this age they just accept whatever you teach them.

We get up, we go to the bathroom, you sit in your bed while I make your food, this is how you behave when I put on your lead, this is how you walk out of the house...its constant. At this age all you are doing is training the dog.

He is walking all over your child - literally. Its unacceptable now and it will be unbearable when he's an adult.

Please take him to puppy training classes at once, and start to learn as much as you can about how to handle and manage a dog. You have to learn how to be a good pack leader.
-luv-ya-haters-
2007-02-14 17:07:12 UTC
well....if u have the wring kind of dog to have a toddler....a puppy. germans are wonderful w/ families but very playful as pups and grow out of it slowly. try crating him overnighting and/or tying him outside for the day hours (about 9-6) the eating thing is pretty much normal, hes a growing dog....and is he the only guy at the house? Its seems like it...he behaves like an alpha male...he thinks hes in charge..so "introduce" him to a male friend...and let them correct him....then you do the same...(of course use a normal face and a loud strong voice..no touching at all) then once he stops...reward him for stopping...so he knows he did sometihng good...eventually hell get used to that and hell know u and ur friend (then just u) are in charge not him. If he "bites" your child, not nips at her...talk to a vet for training or get rid of him. He he doesnt get stern "punishment" from the "alpha male or female" (like u already read) hell think its ok. go through w/ it everytime or it will not work....i wish u luck and i hope a helped!
kelly24592
2007-02-07 04:30:51 UTC
He needs a crate. That will solve the first problem.



If he is growling when you come near his food, then he is a dog with dominance issues. I've not got enough space here to explain the best way to deal with that.



He also needs some training. Teaching him to sit would be a great first step. Find an obedience class for him. If he has a way to focus his energy (or harness it, which ever you prefer!) he will be more malleable.



He also needs to be on a light-lead when he is loose in the house. That way, if he acts out, you can rein him in easily.



It would help if he got more exercise.



As with most behavior problems, the problem is YOURS not your dog's.



Good luck to you!
2007-02-14 19:28:41 UTC
You do have a biiiiiig problem on your hands, and I don't envy you.



I suggest that you confine him to an area/room where he cannot distroy anything or open cupboards.

As one of your helpers, get yourself a large kennel/crate. This should be the place where he sleeps, and that is it.

When he misbehaves by pulling your child off the sofa or is biting the child, you need to take steps to stop it. The animal is claiming a place in the family that might be endangering your child.



First of all call your VET for advice.

Secondly sign the dog up for "obedience training" immediately.
pebbles
2007-02-14 11:37:16 UTC
i dont own a pit bull but i have to defend it. People always try to make a pit to be such a horrid dog, but as i was reading the way people describe a pit bull behavior sounds something like this animal being described. If you didn't mention this was a german shepard i would've thought it was a pit. So i guess all dogs can show aggression. My dog is a pomeranian and i think a lot of the bad as hell behavior comes from his age. My dog use to bite out of not wanting to be chastized so i had to break her from that, she no longer does that. She use to tear up stuff, i believe she did it out of curiosity and boredom. I dont have children but i dont care that much for animals to allow it to put my child in harms way of a pit, (i mean a german shepard,well any dog, human,cat etc... Sad to say but you dont have no true obligation to that dog if its not cooperating with the flow of your household, your true obligation is your child. Like i said my dog was mean and would bite but i wouldnt take no chances with that around my baby. Actually everything else i would work with and pay money to correct but I would be too paranoid to leave a jealous dog around my child because you dont know how thats gonna turn out. It could end in death or serious injuries to your child. Get rid of it to a person who dont have kids!!! good luck
2007-02-10 20:34:20 UTC
babe you are being a bit to lenient with him,at 4 months he shouldnt be like that at all. Give him his food then take it away from him if he snarls at you just snarl back and say I am the boss and this is mine now and dont give it back to him. With a dog you should be able to pick up a bone they are chewing or go to their food, you are the boss not him. You have to show him who is boss without hurting him I must say, I have bred dogs and to be quite honest I think you have got a rogue that will be dangerous when he gets bigger, to be really truthfull I would let him go and get another dog. I had a dog that bit everyone and I tried and tried with him but then he got hold of my grandaughter and bit her face, he was asleep for ever 30 mins after. Dont let it happen to your child. I sorry but try again babe.
2007-02-13 16:59:24 UTC
Do you take your dog to a trainer? Do you correct it or just let it go? My dog gets into stuff too, you just need to put him in a crate when you leave. My dog was fine till we got the second dog, a stray, and she taught him bad habits. The dog food thing, you need to give the dog it's food after YOU eat. This shows that you're the alpha. I think you need to show it YOU are the one giving the food to it. Maybe feed it little by little, give it some out of your hand, and get closer and closer to the food dish. If your dog is submissive you should be able to reach in the bowl and dig some out like you want it yourself. That's showing that you're the alpha. . . Do you want any more? You can email me: CCandDuke@Yahoo.com!
2007-02-07 07:07:13 UTC
The best thing you can do is go and speak to your vets as they will be able to recommend a dog behaviourist who can help you with all the problems you are having.Sounds like your dog needs some guidance and you might actually be causing these problems by giving your dog the wrong signals about what you expect him to do (unintentionally of course)...get some help and with some hard work(as pet ownership is) you will be fine.A lot of dogs become food aggressive.So its a common problem...it isn't as expensive as you think to seek help and you could have the dog you always wanted.Good luck!
debuton2003
2007-02-07 06:00:42 UTC
Well i understand your dilemma but at this point the dog sees you as part of its clan and it will not let anyone come between you and her or him this behavior is not acceptable at all around any children the dog might one day really hurt the children thinking they are a threat to you i suggest you give this dog up and get a puppy that you can have the kids grow up with him or her not the dog getting used to the kids i had a dog like that and whenever my son came near me it would growl and snarl at him one day the dog bit him really bad and i almost lost my son to dhs because they said i was putting him in danger please don't let it get to that point .
Charles Dexter Ward
2007-02-07 05:01:34 UTC
He needs a crate-STAT! He needs it for his safety just as much as for your sanity. It will also help with house-breaking. A dog's natural instinct is to not urinate in their bed.

He may have had to fight the other puppie's for mom's milk. Now he's a bit food-aggressive. Try feeding him from your hand everyday- just a few treats or pieces of food. Let your daughter do the same.

It's very important to socialize German Sheps. with a variety of people. If you have an off-leash dog park in your area, that is a great way to socialize him with dogs and people.

Good luck. These issues are completely normal and you sound devoted to making it work. I think you are going to have a very rewarding relationship with this dog very soon :)
kcdeb
2007-02-07 04:37:34 UTC
NO, Your dog is still a baby... and yet, he already thinks he's in charge but he's too young to handle it.

Let him know who's boss. Tough love. DO NOT let him bully your child.

Also, he needs lots of exercise.

WATCH THE "DOG WHISPERER". Ceasar Milan is a genius!! If you don't get the National. Geographic channel, Buy his Book.



Yelling at him might work at first, But a better way to show dominance over the dog is to just poke him with two fingers... Jab Jab.... and say no. or lay him down, ..just lay him on his side and make him stay til you say to get up.

Sounds silly .... but it works.. BE THE PACK LEADER!!
acstevey1
2007-02-13 11:19:02 UTC
this dog is testing you he is trying to figure out where he fits in he is using the bathroom in the house because he is marking his territory my advice is make sure when he does something wrong you punish him someway not to harshly though buy all kinds of chew toys and find things like bungy cords to keep your doors closed so he cant open these he is doing this because he is teething they make this stuff that you can spray on things that you dont want your dog to chew on as for your child i would bring this dog around her more often with your supervision to get him use to her and try to give him a little more attention than what you do now this may be a jealousy thing over your child getting him use to her asap is the best thing
marc r
2007-02-14 15:22:12 UTC
Start with buying a crate and crate him when you are asleep. Dogs like a nice cozy place to sleep so put some blankets and a chew toy in crate.



Look for a trainer to assist you.



Good Luck from a Lab owner
kaz
2007-02-07 08:44:43 UTC
Your dog has some serious problems with you and your child and you need to sort them out while hes still young and before he hurts you both!!!! Training classes won't help as his problems are at home and they re so serious he needs one to one help. Look for a dog trainer that will come to your house and help you there. They cost quite a bit of money but its going to be the only solution to his behaviour. Please get help straight away!!!!
Another Planet
2007-02-07 05:42:26 UTC
You need to rehome this dog with someone who really understands GSDs. You are not the right owner for this dog. I think that you already have your hands full with your daughter who needs you full time. A puppy needs you full time too. They are hard work & need to have bounderies. He needs lots of socialising at such a young age, to set him on the right path for adulthood. It sounds like he has already got off on the wrong foot & has dominating tendiences. For the safety of your daughter you need to let him go now before he gets set in his ways, & hurts her badly. He will be a big powerful dog when he grows up. If you are prepared to work hard with him, then seek out the advice of a behaviourist. I think they would say the same though.
2014-10-04 14:43:49 UTC
it will not feel like it but you have to be the boss of the dog. if the dog is at all growls at you or your child stop it quickly by yelling a strong NO!! at him and send the dog outside or into another room away from you. if it continues you could get to the stage where he bites. I'd say that your dog is most likely very bored at night that's why he is opening the cupboards and remember that dogs can smell much better then us, so it's like putting you into a fast food place and saying don't eat anything. maybe a laundry is better. but most of all show the dog that your child is high on the pecking order then him and be very strong about telling the dog off, once you set the rules for the dog at a
kim h
2007-02-07 08:07:54 UTC
Slowwwwwww down take a breath. 4months old still a baby (good thing) first off he is still a baby BUT you can NOT tolerate this behavior especially with having a child. Get him checked by your vet he may have worms. Choose another area for him he may be telling you he doesn't like that area for night-night. Make sure you have his own little bed for him as children they want to know that thet are needed too,this is VERY important even put toys in there and Only put him in there for night night if you also use that area for punishment then he is feeling when it is time for bed time that he is being punished all night long BAD THING, and that is why he is rebelling against you they are so much like children I have 7 I know. Second make sure that your child is not RUFF with him I know that 4 yr olds tend to be a little ruff with animals But you need to stop him in his tracks NOW. DO NOT LET HIM GROWL AT YOU that is allowing him to think that he has the control over YOU DO NOT LET THIS HAPPEN, DO NOT ever hit him just say in a stearn voice NO. until you have the control over him I would TRY to keep your little one away, until it is SAFE FOR HER. try to feed him his food one by one if he makes a mistake and try's to take the food fast say in a stern voice NO and continue feeding him this will show him patience and that it is ok for someone to be around his food if he doesnt accept from your hand put the food away and try again in 1-4 minutes and continuously keep trying everyday throughout the day this will definitely show him the patience and that you are in CONTROL DO NOT have your daughter do this. You have to be the one until he gets TRAINED and he knows it is ok for others to be around his food dish you need to train train train I don't know if you had gotten him from a kennel or what background he has for parents but, that is very unusual for german shepards to be acting that way. You have alot of work ahead of you but it will pay off in the end for that they are very protective over their family members and are VERY VERY GOOD DOGS, if trained correctly. When it is play time DO NOT shoot your child away he has to know that she is part of the family hold your child on your lap and then also call him onto your lap and then stroke your child with your hand in front of your dog and say good girl eventually you will be able to take your childs hand with you holding it and stroke the back side of your dog and say good boy so that he knows the child is not going to hurt him so that he knows you have 2 babies not just him try to do alot with the 2 your child and him (the dog) for that if every time you play with your dog and you tell your child NO go on then that makes him feel that he is your only child and then he wants all the attention. When to put him night-night you will need to get a cage I know it sounds cruel but this is an excellent way of the puppy holding his bathroom habits and only put him in the cage when it is time to go night-night as soon as you awake in the morning make sure he didn't make any mistakes although for the first couple days there may be mistakes but generally speaking usually animals will NOT potty in their sleeping area. praise him like crazy give a treat tell him good boy and take him outside this will definitely be an excellent way of getting him in control of holding. In between his food you should introduce him to treats if you haven't already when he does really good things praise him and give him the treats and get your child into this too with the treats then this will also show him that she also has food that he wants and gets him closer to your child. also DO NOT keep your garbage by him that just intises him for that he is still a baby himself the very best of luck
Claire B
2007-02-08 11:45:56 UTC
He thinks he is protecting and gets jelous if other people get your attention. Was he a rescued dog? if so it would explain why he is growling for food. When homeless animals have to fight and scroung for food thats his way of saying don't take it away its mine. He will be bored locked in kitchen so he will get up to mischief if you can leave a bone or pigs ear something and tasty which will keep him going most of day.
Mags
2007-02-08 10:46:35 UTC
show him you are the boss put child locks on the cupboards and the fridge when you put his diner down stand over the dish as he comes to it and stay there until he is finished just keep on correcting him all the time do not let him off with anything
2007-02-07 07:40:17 UTC
sounds like a case of bad training, not deliberatley, but the most spoilt and loved dogs can turn out with a problem with dominence with in the home.he needs to learn who is boss, and thats you.you need to sort this problem out asap with a child in danger. i suggest you consult a dog behaviorist to adjust his behavoir i am sure he will just have un learn his bad habits, but i would not allow this behavoir to continue as you are not doing the dog any favours at all.hope it works out for you
cottingirl
2007-02-14 18:57:27 UTC
your dog is perfectly normal. first, puppies eat a lot, especially German shepheards. my german shepheard is 6 months old and she thinks my small kids are puppies like her and tries to play roughly with her. she often bit them and jumped and tackled them. we trained her since she was 8weeks old and she has turned out to be a great dog. you might want to get her to go to obedience school. i have always had amazing results with it and it usually doesn't cost much at all. most likely, he wont cuddle and be loving cause he is to busy trying to play with any thing in sight and puppies have a very short attention span.
nosy old lady
2007-02-11 06:50:12 UTC
If he is snapping and snarling now he will always be like this, also he seems jealous of ur daughter, I wouldn't have a dog like that near my child,I'd get rid asap.
2007-02-07 04:41:57 UTC
first of all no dog is a bad dog.take him for a walk today and dont go in until he pees.this is normal for puppies,a good pat on the rump will teach him some manners or a small squirt gun one you would find at the dollar store maybe.
vannilabean
2007-02-10 21:30:15 UTC
i would put him in a doggie crate. try to make it as comfortable as possible so he will enjoy goint in there. then i would get him to obidience school. keep him away from your child. i would be afraid he would really hurt your child. i am a dog lover and i wouldnt put up with that from my dog. but fortunately my dog is really good. all i have left to say is good luck and hope this helps.
Trust Only Your Vet
2007-02-07 09:49:52 UTC
No you do not have a bad dog, you just don't know how to train a smart dog. Get him into obedience classes fast. It would not hurt to consult a dog behaviorist too.
smokeyjo
2007-02-12 13:37:09 UTC
it sounds to me like u have spoiled him/Ive done it myself.put your dog out every 15 Min's.put child locks on all cupboards. give him his own toys & put your things out the way treat a dog like a child they like to no there place disapline them no smaking but fime voice.BUT IF YOU ARE SAYING YOU DONT TRUST YOUR DOG BY YOUR BABY AND HE HAS BIT U MUST HAVE YOUR DOG PUT TO SLEEP not nice i no but my dog took a finger off.went through my hand & bit my 14yold im sorry if it sounds bad but it has to be that way &no i didnt wont to hear it either. i lrt it go &go&go hope this has been helpfull good luck

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2007-02-07 10:41:34 UTC
Right okay...some people have left you some really long answers so il make mine short:

He is still very young but his behavious is not on. Best advice is seek advice from a behaviourist NOW!!! look in yellow pages or yell.com for one in your area. They arent cheap but I really think it will be worth it. They will help you train him to behave before he gets to be an adult.

good luck
KathyS
2007-02-07 05:29:07 UTC
Your dog needs training. Sounds like you aren't training him at all. Take him to obedience class and get a crate.
2007-02-12 22:21:34 UTC
first, there are no " Bad Dogs ". it`s realy all up to the owner.



the best advice i could give you has already been given.



find a good well known trainer
kelcy129
2007-02-13 12:14:22 UTC
Get him A xtra lrg cage. My brother-in-law has a german shepahard and he loves to be confined in his own personal space. They also need to be exercised alot. He may be telling you something.
2007-02-07 04:34:17 UTC
You need to register him in obedience school right away.



This is very important. There with that routine he will quickly learn that he has a place in the scheme and it isn't quite as lofty as he's thinking now.



This is a very intelligent and dominant breed, so go to school ASAP.



best of luck,
2007-02-07 05:26:22 UTC
Read the practical dog listener by Jan Fennell - I promise you'll be amazed
Liz W
2007-02-07 05:32:01 UTC
1st - He needs you to be his pack leader, not the other way around.

2nd - Lots and lots of excersize.



Try visiting Cesar Milan's website - lots of info on packs and leadership to help you have a well balanced, happy dog.



Best wishes
Unhinged....
2007-02-07 08:42:01 UTC
NEVER a bad dog, just a bad owner! its all to do with the fact that your dog is not clear where it stands in the heirarchy of your family. it needs to be made clear by training. Never give in to your dog, it has to understand that you are the boss and that your child is above it as well.
pinkkitten
2007-02-07 04:31:19 UTC
Thats not good! Try training classes, but to be honest if it was my dog and it was a threat to my kids i would have to consider re homing him. Dont wait for something terrible to happen. good luck
theanswerman
2007-02-07 04:31:01 UTC
Take your dog to training school...Most 4 month old puppies don't act like that. Has it had all its shots?
2007-02-10 07:06:08 UTC
He is not a bad dog he just needs guidance so get a trainer and also have you wormed him?
2007-02-07 04:34:09 UTC
i dont think he is bad - just that he thinks he is leader of the pack and he rules the roost - i would enrol him in obedience classes - you are sure to find one near to you in the yellow pages - hope this helps
sillybuttmunky
2007-02-07 04:49:12 UTC
You NEED to take control of your home. You're dog is controlling you, your home and your child.



There is no need to get rid of him but you are going to have to train him, discipline him, exercise him, and estalbish and maintain your Alpha status.



Your dog sees you and your child beneath him. An alpha dog gives the others in the pack permission to eat, if they approach before he is finished he will snarl as a warning then snap to teach a lesson.



Before you feed him put him in sit, then down. Down is the dog submitting to you. Put a leash on him for control. When you feed him he should STILL be in down and can not approach the bowl till YOU say he can.



Walk back over to him, pick up his leash and put him in sit, away from the bowl. Approach the bowl but do not allow him to eat, put him back in sit. If his body gets stiff, his ears fold back and/or he starts growling take him away from the bowl and put him back in sit, then try again. When he stops growling or showing signs of aggression then he's allowed to eat. You reward calm submissive actions with the food. Don't give in to his aggression.



When you feed him and he is away from the bowl in sit reach your hand in and play with the food a bit, then go get him and take him to the bowl. You're showing him YOU get it first THEN it's his turn. Make sure to have a command to allow to eat.



Now... you have to set bounderies for you dog. I suggest to crate the little guy at night. It's not a horrible thing, in fact dogs need a space of their own. It's a sanctuary, a den, somewhere all his own to get away from the baby, from the TV, for anything he wants at any time.



When you put him in make it a good experience. Give him treats and praise and never use it for punishment - you'll send mixed - usually negative messages.



When your dog attempts to jump up on the couch immediately tell him off then down. He is NOT allowed on the furniture. That is where people sit. Purchase him a bed of his own if you like but that really isn't necessary. If you want him on the furniture he can not get on till YOU say it's okay. If he jumps on before then, tell him off and put him in down immediately. You can pet him while you sit on the couch and he is at your feet or your side in sit. Calmly in sit or down. He can't come up running, jumping, etc. If you pet him you're rewarding that excited behavior. Put him in sit and when he is calm then pet him.



When ever the dog is in the house he should be in down unless you instruct otherwise. There is no reason why the dog should be all over the place and running around causing havoc. If you're watching tv, put the dog in down. Laundry - dog should be in down or in his crate, dishes the dog should be OUT of the kitchen and in down. Don't let him get back up till YOU give the command to do so.



It will help the dog to relax - and create a more peaceful atmosphere in your home.



Teach your dog "go away" or "go lay down" or even "out". Point and give the command, then take your dog where you want him and tell him to down. You can use this to set bounderies for him NOT to even go into a room. My girls are not allowed in the kitchen. They sit right at the edge and stare but do not come in.



Consistancy and repetition is key. The dog will catch on.



As for your child - the dog doesn't have a decision whether he likes her or not! It's a matter of status. Your child needs to be above the dog in the pack. Keep your dog in down and let the child come around him. Keep the dog on a leash for control. Keep the dog in down!! Let your child gently pet the dog, offer treats, even sometimes feed the dog. Have your child around when you tell the dog to sit and down so the dog will associate your child and YOU with submitting.



It is imparative to get this situation undercontrol as soon as possible or you may have a very dangerous situation on your hands.



Don't be afraid to set LOTS of rules and bounderies. Dogs thrive in a structured, well balanced atmosphere. They need rules and discipline. A dog is lost, shy, anxious and can become aggressive and destructive if he doesn't have what he needs within his "pack".



The dog also should be getting 30min - 1 hour a day of all out running exercise, along w/ 2-3 walks a day. Burn off all that excess energy. You'll be amazed at the difference it makes on his behavior!



If you need further help for specific problems hire a trainer to come to your home. They will asses the dog, your family and the situation and address YOUR specific requests and needs.



Also make sure this dog is properly socialized. He needs to be around other dogs, cats, birds, children, elderly and other adults. A large dog like this can cause a lot of harm if not properly socialized - then you have a whole other problem on your hands.



Good Luck
st.lady (1 of GitEm's gang)
2007-02-07 05:04:14 UTC
Its called a crate and it works wonders. Try it.
Billie Jean
2007-02-07 04:31:08 UTC
show him 2 the vet .......well wid small kids its normal...they think kids 2 b of their own kind but c d'u giv him da right food n giv him training all small dogs nedd training
milan m
2007-02-15 02:01:04 UTC
you don't have a bad dog, the problem is the trainig of dog.
petprincess@sbcglobal.net
2007-02-07 04:38:33 UTC
Play, Boredom and/or Social Isolation

Normal play behavior can result in destruction, as it may involve digging, chewing, shredding and/or shaking toy-like

objects. Since dogs investigate objects by pawing at them and exploring them with their mouths, they may

inadvertently damage items in their environment.

Your dog may be chewing for entertainment if:

􀁸􀀃 He’s left alone for long time periods without opportunities for interaction with you or other family members.

􀁸􀀃 His environment is relatively barren, without playmates or toys.

􀁸􀀃 He’s a puppy or adolescent (under 3 years old) and he doesn’t have other outlets for his energy.

􀁸􀀃 He’s a particularly active type of dog (like the herding or sporting breeds) who needs an active lifestyle to be

happy.

Solutions:

􀁸􀀃 Play with your dog daily in a safe, fenced-in area. If you don’t have a yard, a tennis court can be a good

place to play. Fetch is a great game that will use up your dog’s excess energy without wearing you out!

􀁸􀀃 Go for a walk. Walks should be more than just “bathroom time.” On-leash walks are important opportunities

for you and your dog to be together. Don’t forget to allow time for sniffing, exploring, instruction and praise.

􀁸􀀃 Increase your dog’s opportunities for mental stimulation. Teach your dog a few commands and/or tricks and

practice them daily. If you have time, take an obedience class.

􀁸􀀃 Provide your dog with lots of toys (see our handout: “Dog Toys and How to Use Them”).

􀁸􀀃 Rotate your dog’s toys to refresh his interest in them. “New” toys are always more interesting than old ones.

􀁸􀀃 Try different kinds of toys, but when you introduce a new toy, watch your dog to make sure he won’t tear it up

and ingest the pieces.

􀁸􀀃 Consider the various types of toys that can be stuffed with food. Putting tidbits of food inside chew toys

focuses your dog’s chewing activities on these toys instead of on unacceptable objects.

􀁸􀀃 Make your dog’s favorite off-limits chew objects unattractive to him by covering them with heavy plastic,

aluminum foil, hot pepper sauce or a commercial “anti-chew” product.

􀁸􀀃 Consider a good doggie day care program for two or three days a week to work off some of your dog’s

excess energy.

Separation Anxiety

Dogs with separation anxiety tend to display behaviors that reflect a strong attachment to their owners. This includes

following you from room to room, frantic greetings and reacting anxiously to your preparation to leave the house.

Factors that can precipitate a separation anxiety problem:

􀁸􀀃 A change in the family’s schedule that results in your dog being left alone more often.

􀁸􀀃 A move to a new house.

􀁸􀀃 The death or loss of a family member or another family pet.

􀁸􀀃 A period at a shelter or boarding kennel.

These behaviors are not motivated by spite or revenge, but by anxiety. Punishment will only make the problem worse.

Separation anxiety can be resolved by using counter conditioning and desensitization techniques (see our handouts:

“Separation Anxiety” and “Tools for Managing Your Pets’ Anxiety).

Attention-Seeking Behavior

Without realizing it, we often pay more attention to our dogs when they are misbehaving. Dogs who don’t receive

much attention and reinforcement for appropriate behavior may engage in destructive behavior when their owners

are present as a way to attract attention – even if the attention is “negative,” such as a verbal scolding. From a dog’s

point of view, negative attention is better than no attention at all.

Solutions:

􀁸􀀃 Make sure your dog gets plenty of positive attention every day – playing, walking, grooming or just petting.

􀁸􀀃 Ignore (as much as possible) bad behavior and reward only good behavior. Remember to reward your dog

with praise and petting when he’s playing quietly with appropriate toys.

􀁸􀀃 Make his favorite off-limits chew objects unattractive or unavailable to him. Use aversives on objects that

cannot be put away (See our handout “Sample Aversives for Dogs”).

􀁸􀀃 Teach your dog a “drop it” command so when he does pick up an off-limits object, you can use your

command and praise him for complying. The best way to teach “drop it” is to practice having him exchange

a toy in his possession for a tidbit of food.

􀁸􀀃 Practice “Nothing in Life is Free” with your dog (see our handout: “Nothing in Life is Free”). This gets your dog in

the habit of complying with your commands and is a good way to make sure he gets lots of positive attention for doing the right things – so he won’t have to resort to being naughty just to get your attention.

Use a crate when he is going to bed. It is a safe haven to dogs.

Understanding Aggressive Dog Behavior

Dog aggression is any behavior meant to intimidate or harm a person or another animal. Growling, baring teeth, snarling, snapping and biting are all aggressive behaviors. Although aggressive behaviors are normal for dogs, they're generally unacceptable to humans. From a dog's perspective, there's always a reason for aggressive behavior. Because humans and dogs have different communication systems, misunderstandings can occur between the two species. A person may intend to be friendly, but a dog may perceive that person's behavior as threatening or intimidating. Dogs aren't schizophrenic, psychotic, crazy or necessarily "vicious" when displaying aggressive behavior.



Because aggression is so complex, and because the potential consequences are so serious, we recommend that you get professional in-home help from an animal-behavior specialist if your dog is displaying aggressive behavior.



Types of Aggression

Dominance Aggression: Dominance aggression is motivated by a challenge to a dog's social status or to his control of a social interaction. Dogs are social animals and view their human families as their social group or "pack." Based on the outcomes of social challenges among group members, a dominance hierarchy or "pecking order" is established.



If your dog perceives his own ranking in the hierarchy to be higher than yours, it's likely that he'll challenge you in certain situations. Because people don't always understand canine communication, you may inadvertently challenge your dog's social position. A dominantly aggressive dog may growl if he is disturbed when resting or sleeping, or if he is asked to give up a favorite spot, such as the couch or the bed. Physical restraint, even when done in a friendly manner, like hugging, may also cause your dog to respond aggressively. Reaching for your dog's collar, or reaching out over his head to pet him, could also be interpreted by him as a challenge for dominance. Dominantly aggressive dogs are often described as "Jekyll and Hydes" because they can be very friendly when not challenged. Dominance aggression may be directed at people or at other animals. The most common reason for dogs in the same family to fight with each other is instability in the dominance hierarchy.



Dog aggression is any behavior meant to intimidate or harm a person or another animal. Growling, baring teeth, snarling, snapping and biting are all aggressive behaviors. Although aggressive behaviors are normal for dogs, they're generally unacceptable to humans. From a dog's perspective, there's always a reason for aggressive behavior. Because humans and dogs have different communication systems, misunderstandings can occur between the two species. A person may intend to be friendly, but a dog may perceive that person's behavior as threatening or intimidating. Dogs aren't schizophrenic, psychotic, crazy, or necessarily "vicious," when displaying aggressive behavior.



Because aggression is so complex, and because the potential consequences are so serious, we recommend that you get professional in-home help from an animal behavior specialist if your dog is displaying aggressive behavior. Our Behavior Helpline can't assist you with aggressive behavior problems (see our handout: "When The Behavior Helpline Can't Help").



Types Of Aggression

Dominance Aggression: Dominance aggression is motivated by a challenge to a dog's social status or to his control of a social interaction. Dogs are social animals and view their human families as their social group or "pack." Based on the outcomes of social challenges among group members, a dominance hierarchy or "pecking order" is established (see our handout: "Dealing With Dominance In Dogs").



If your dog perceives his own ranking in the hierarchy to be higher than yours, it's likely that he'll challenge you in certain situations. Because people don't always understand canine communication, you may inadvertently challenge your dog's social position. A dominantly aggressive dog may growl if he is disturbed when resting or sleeping, or if he is asked to give up a favorite spot, such as the couch or the bed. Physical restraint, even when done in a friendly manner, like hugging, may also cause your dog to respond aggressively. Reaching for your dog's collar, or reaching out over his head to pet him, could also be interpreted by him as a challenge for dominance. Dominantly aggressive dogs are often described as "Jekyll and Hydes" because they can be very friendly when not challenged. Dominance aggression may be directed at people or at other animals. The most common reason for dogs in the same family to fight with each other is instability in the dominance hierarchy (see our handout: "Canine Rivalry").



Fear-Motivated Aggression: Fear-motivated aggression is a defensive reaction and occurs when a dog believes he is in danger of being harmed. Remember that it's your dog's perception of the situation, not your actual intent, which determines your dog's response. For example, you may raise your arm to throw a ball, but your dog, perceiving this to be a threat, may bite you because he believes he is protecting himself from being hit. A dog may also be fearfully aggressive when approached by other dogs.



Protective, Territorial And Possessive Aggression: Protective, territorial and possessive aggression are all very similar, and involve the defense of valuable resources. Territorial aggression is usually associated with defense of property. However, your dog's sense of territory may extend well past the boundaries of "his" yard. For example, if you walk your dog regularly around the neighborhood and allow him to urine-mark, to him, his territory may be the entire block! Protective aggression usually refers to aggression directed toward people or animals that a dog perceives as threats to his family, or pack. Dogs become possessively aggressive when defending their food, toys or other valued objects, such as Kleenex stolen from the trash!



Redirected Aggression: This type of aggression is relatively common, but is a behavior that pet owners may not always understand. If a dog is aroused into an aggressive response by a person or animal that he is prevented from attacking, he may redirect this aggression onto someone else. A common example occurs when two family dogs become excited, bark and growl in response to another dog passing through the front yard. The two dogs, confined behind a fence, may turn and attack each other because they can't attack the intruder. Predation is usually considered to be a unique kind of aggressive behavior, because it's motivated by the intent to obtain food, and not primarily by the intent to harm or intimidate.

Individual Variation

Dogs differ in their likelihood to show aggressive behavior in any particular situation. Some dogs tend to respond aggressively with very little stimulation. Others may be subjected to all kinds of threatening stimuli and events, and never attempt to bite. The difference in this threshold at which a dog displays aggressive behavior is influenced by both environmental and genetic factors. If this threshold is low, a dog will be more likely to bite. Raising the threshold makes a dog less likely to respond aggressively. This threshold can be raised using behavior modification techniques. How easily the threshold can be changed is influenced by the dog's gender, age, breed, general temperament, and by whether the appropriate behavior modification techniques are chosen and correctly implemented. Working with aggressive dogs can be potentially dangerous, and should be done only by, or under the guidance of, an experienced animal behavior professional who understands animal learning theory and behavior.



What You Can Do

First check with your veterinarian to rule out medical causes for the aggressive behavior.

Seek professional help. An aggression problem will not go away by itself. Working with aggression problems requires in-home help from an animal behavior specialist.

Take precautions. Your first priority is to keep everyone safe. Supervise, confine and/or restrict your dog's activities until you can obtain professional help. You're liable for your dog's behavior. If you must take your dog out in public, consider a cage-type muzzle as a temporary precaution, and keep in mind that some dogs can get a muzzle off.

Avoid exposing your dog to situations where he is more likely to show aggression. You may need to keep him confined to a safe room and limit his people-contact.

If your dog is possessive of food, treats or a certain place, don't allow him access to those items. In an emergency, bribe him with something better than what he has. For example, if he steals your shoe, trade him the shoe for a piece of chicken.

Spay or neuter your dog. Intact dogs are more likely to display dominance, territorial and protective aggressive behavior.

What Not To Do

Punishment won't help and, in fact, will make the problem worse. If the aggression is motivated by fear, punishment will make your dog more fearful, and therefore more aggressive. Attempting to punish or dominate a dominantly aggressive dog is likely to cause him to escalate his behavior in order to retain his dominant position. This is likely to result in a bite or a severe attack. Punishing territorial, possessive or protective aggression is likely to elicit additional defensive aggression.

Don't encourage aggressive behavior. Playing tug-of-war or wrestling games encourages your dog to attempt to "best" you or "win" over you, which can result in the beginning of a dominance aggression problem. When dogs are encouraged to "go get 'em" or to bark and dash about in response to outside noises or at the approach of a person, territorial and protective aggressive behavior may be the result.


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